How Do You Know When Someone Is The One?

United States
April 21, 2007 4:10pm CST
This seems like a basic question, but I am honestly looking for people's unique views on the subjects. How do you know? Or how did you know? I cannot be the only one wondering how you know for absolute sure that you are with the right person! I believe that my someone is the one because I cannot imagine life without him. We have been together for 7 1/2 years and I still love him just as much as I always have.
5 responses
• United States
30 Apr 07
I think you just know! I've been with Mike for 6 months now. I met him almost a year and a half ago (too lazy to count). I think the moment I really knew that he could be the one was when he told me he loved me for me and didn't need me to change. I'm a bigger girl, and every guy I've been with has always wanted me to change in some way. This was a really big thing for me.
• United States
23 Apr 07
How did I know? well...I met my husband when I was 17 and I knew I was attracted to him. I knew I wanted to know him. I knew he was handsome,athletic,funny,lovable--the moment I met him. We have know been married for almost 16 years and have 2 children. I dont know what I would do without him...I just KNEW:)
@karajane (27)
• United States
22 Apr 07
Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years. We've have our problems but in the end, everything has worked out for the best. I've never been this happy before and I can't imagine my life without him. I know he's the one because we have so much in common and even after 4 years, we still have plenty to talk about. He's also the one because he told me it would be fine if I left him for my dream celebrity crush. :)
• China
21 Apr 07
To be honest i don't think there's such a thing! I think it's more about the person... some people can be given anyone but they look at things in a positive way and appreciate whatever they are given and make the person they have as the one, and everything ends up well... others are extremely choosy or unlucky that they never find someone they are willing to spend the rest or their lives with... I think a simple answer would be to spend the rest of your life being the best you can be and hoping you get someone who you can talk and laugh with, ans someone who brings out the best in you...
@netski_15 (423)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
I knew that my hubby is the one for me when i felt: so secured with him around so happy so inlove the care and love he's giving to me getting into my veins that i can go on with life without him that even with his bad attitudes and mannerism i still adore him sharing every single detaill of my life without hesitation... It's so great to feel all these stuffs at once with only one person.