How many times will you let your partner lie to you??

Philippines
April 21, 2007 4:16pm CST
The first time your partner lied, you forgive and understand for whatever reason but what if it happen again? Will you still forgive and understand? If yes, til when? If no, why? :-(
5 responses
@aslygirl (531)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
For me trust is one important factor in any relationship.When somebody lie to me then my trust will begin to broke, and when you keep on lying then you want the trust to be destroy.Also if the trust is gone the respest maybe gone too.If my partner do it to me then i will forgive him once but if he keep on do it then i will let him go.cause the respect in the relationship and trust to each other is gone now.
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• Philippines
25 Apr 07
Maybe only twice. they say "one is enough, two is too much"....And lying to your partner is lying to yourself too.
@netski_15 (423)
• Philippines
21 Apr 07
I have set my mind to forgive my hubby for major lies only once. I made it clear to him that if he does it again, I will file an annulment and its no joke. I believe that when you keep forgiving your partner, he or she will keep doing it knowing that you will be there to forgive him or her. They tend to abuse you. It is best the right from the start the rules are clear. If someone bends it then she or he knows the consequence as well. We may love our partners so much but we must also think of ourselves. This is not being selfish but seeing what consequences will it give you?
@parnap (124)
• Indonesia
22 Apr 07
not many, but i have a reason for that lie, but im not a liar :)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
its okay to forgive your partner. but if he abuses it and done it many times. he's taking advantage of your kindness and kind of like making a fool of you so you need to take some action if he keeps on doing that and show no signs of stopping.