Angry Young Man?
By Scorleo4us
@Scorleo4us (292)
Pakistan
April 22, 2007 2:39am CST
i have a strong anger? am i a angry young man? and how can i get control on my anger? please all my friends i need your advice and jhelp to get control on my anger. Due to this anger i have resigned from my several jobs from good position. once i get angry then no body can keep me cool. how i can get control on it. if you people are my friend in reality then i need your help?
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4 responses
@apsara60 (6609)
• Israel
22 Apr 07
I will tell you something which will really change you if you will follow what I am saying. I was like you and now I have changed and feel great.
As soon as you get angry at someone, exchange place with him, put yourself in his place and think, what would you do, what will be your feelings if you where in his place. Immediatly your angry will reduce.....sometimes we just get over excited. By getting unnecessarily angry, you are bring harm to your health and unnecessary problems to your life.
Let me also tell you something, if you really want to teach a lesson to someone, then instead of getting angry, just ignore him/her. The person who thinks he is very importnt or great.....gets most annoyed when he is ignored. By ignoring you will not burn your blood, and at the same time you will teach a lesson to opposite person.....
Try to do some yoga and follow advise of saint Ramdev.....may be it will help you. By getting angry, you will not find any peace in life.
@Scorleo4us (292)
• Pakistan
22 Apr 07
dear Friend, thanks so much for your advice and feelings for me. i will do what ever you advice me but the situation here with me is totally different with me. our Boss(GM) is always shouting on the staff and so many staff resign due to this problem. i am a very strong man and have the courage to takle the things easy.
so far thanks again for your good advice. i am happy there are people who cares?
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@visitorinvasion (7709)
• United States
22 Apr 07
A wise man once told me that even a*sholes have their purpose in life. That purpose is to motivate you.
By quitting jobs in anger you allow the person who angered you to cost you money. Don't do that. Let that anger go somewhere else inside you for that moment. There will be another more appropriate time and place to handle a situation other than work.
Don't let your anger control you. You control it.
It's not easy, but I'm living proof that it can be one.
I haven't punched anyone in almost 8 years.
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@Scorleo4us (292)
• Pakistan
22 Apr 07
thanks so much my friend, i really happy that there are people who care me. thanks for your advice and the feelings. believe me i am a very strong man. i am very sincere to my profession. but i never like disrespect or abusing. my situation is totally different. i always try to be cool and thanks again for encouging me. please keep in touch. and keep smile.
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@Willowlady (10657)
• United States
23 Apr 07
Anger is a chosen emotion. You must take charge of this and realize that it serves no real purpose. It is negative and takes a toll on your body in a bad way. Take up a sport and spend some of that energy so that it is more manageable. Hormones in a body can be powerful, drink water too and too keep your blood more balanced. Good luck with this. It will take some work since it seems to have become a habit.
