how would you drop a break-up word?

@djmarion (4898)
Philippines
April 23, 2007 4:33am CST
would you tell it straight?
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6 responses
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
"there is no easy way to break somebodies heart" is a phrase i heard from a song. and its true. just tell him straight and the reason why you would want a break up. there really is no other way.
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
10 May 07
i guess its true.
@LadyFenix (110)
• United States
23 Apr 07
people who know me know I don't like to beat around the bush if I want something I get it one way or the other and since I don't care what people think I usually say what's on my mind I have had to drop that ax a few times and I have learned just cutting the strings is the best way to do it less pain that way
@vhinjc (342)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
you seem to be one tough woman,.
@vhinjc (342)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
tell it as soft as possible, gentle words hurt less. :)
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
There's no other way than to say it straight or lie. I'd prefer to do the first one. I know that it's never easy especially when you care about the person that you are breaking up with. But there is never an easy way to break a relationship with someone. No matter how you do it, it would still hurt. I think that you should just be honest so that the respect will be kept intact and there may be a possibility of a friendship after the break-up and the healing.
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
thank you nanayangel, so you believe that lovers can turn friends... nice...
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• India
23 Apr 07
I have not yet said this to anyone. If I would have to say this to some one I will try my best not be hard. I will speak in a soft and straight way. Because straightness is always good. The person will be able to know my mind if I become straight in these matters. That will be better for him to decide future steps.
@vhinjc (342)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
i agree with you,
• Malaysia
23 Apr 07
haha.. i think it's very difficult to drop a break up word.. have you tried? last time, i just send a text message to break up.. i simply find an excuse so i can actually break up with the girl.. i think there's no point explaining in details why you're leaving her.. when there's no feeling.. you'll just have to leave.. don't you think so? it would be more unfair to stay with her when you don't love her anymore.. right? and you don't want to hurt her more in the future right? haha.. telling straight will hurt the person feeling.. and i think .. it's better not to be face to face.. it will make them feel embarassed =)
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
23 Apr 07
hmmm..the last time i said the magic word is through letters so i havent seen te reaction. i guess its better that way. lol
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