relationships- the best time to talk about a "touchy" subject, is after relaxing

United States
April 23, 2007 1:59pm CST
I have come to realize that regardless of what kind of relationship you are in, the best time to talk about a touchy subject is after relaxing. Let me explain: After my wife gets home, sometimes after a bad day at work, I run her a hot bubble bath, with bath salts(all the feminine things in there), and I act as if she was the only thing on my mind all day. This almost always relieves most of the anxiety, stress, pressure, etc. that was there earlier when she got home. It also works when we have an argument about somthing and there are hurt feelings involved, or prideful,stubborn attitude.(this happens to everyone at one time or another. TELL ME SOME OF YOUR RELAXATION METHODS OR REMEDIES TO A STRESSFUL DAY, OR AFTER AN ARGUMENT ENDING IN HURT FEELINGS OR A STUBBORN ATTITUDE FROM ONE OF YOU. PLEASE RESPOND ITS OKAY IF IT IS DATING, WHATEVER!!!
1 response
• Nigeria
23 Apr 07
if i have an arguement with my girlfriend prior to her coming home. I would make sure i get home ahead of her to prepare her favourite meal, make her a good cup of coffee while i play her number one song. Immediately she enters and feel the changes, i always notice that all her worries and stress disappear and she comes back to life. Thats when we get to talk about our "touchy" issues and gets them solved