How do you deal with the "ugly" things about your self ?

i am open to criticisms esp if they are constructive. when someone tells me something negative, i try to change it if i m in control but i see to it that i am not doing it just to please everybody. I belive that i don't have to please everyone!

Most people like to be someone else. I was like that before. All I have to do is not to focus the ugly things I have in life instead I will focus the good things. For me, it doesn't matter how I look physically but what matters most is how I deal my life. That's why I meditate everyday.

yes nobody's perfect, dealing with ugly things about yourself can make you a negative person. you know you just see your not so good part but then you forget that you had also your positive part, like your talents and personality. For example, for you, you look ugly, you are fat and dark, you just reverse the feeling, you just look at your personality, maybe if your ugly or fat or dark, you are a jolly person, you are very helpful, coz when people see you happy despite of that, they will forget what you look like. they will be inspired by you.

Just like you, i try to change gradually the ugly things in my life. Its hard, but i did it lettle by little. And for those that i cant change a bit, i try to cope with it and accept it.