Who suffers most when divorce happens?
By Ellie
@ellie26 (4139)
Malaysia
April 24, 2007 1:00am CST
When there is disagreement in the marriage, divorce seems to be the best answer. But has anyone thought about who will suffer most? Divorcing one another is it an act of selfishness or just an excuse to get somebody new? If children were involved, do you tell them about your divorce plan or just go ahead without thinking about the children's feeling? Do you think divorce is the only way to solve a conflict? Why do early generation can sustain their marriage until their death (till death do us part)? How do you think they can survive all the conflicts and hardship along their marriage live? So, my friends, I think divorce is not a good answer to any couple disagreeing one another. I think the answer should be accepting one another as they are. Learn to compromise. And another thing is what make you think that the second or third time around is going to work?
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3 responses
@recycledgoth (9894)
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24 Apr 07
When my marriage broke down there was no fault on either side. My ex-husband and I mutually agreed that there was little point in continuing with our marriage and we both talked to our son and he was old enough to understand the problems. We both tried to resolve the difficulties but there are times when it is better to divorce on good terms and get on with your lives.
@erminiasanjose (1588)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
That's true. Couples should not separate or divorce. But there are times that couples become more than cats and dogs, always quarreling, already to the detriment for both spouses and the children. And so, divorce is sought for. But for me, I am not at all in favor of divorce.
