Is it true that women are more comfortable with men?
By bindishah
@bindishah (2062)
India
April 24, 2007 2:22am CST
This is true atleast for me. I have more male friends than i do female friends. i also find them easier to get along with. With my women friends there's a lot of ego and one - upmanship which is not there with the guys. With my guy friends i can just be my natural self. Is this true for all of you too?
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6 responses
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
24 Apr 07
Males can give best comforts to females than females. Unlike females they will not gossip and feel jealous. Men will treat girls specially, whereas girls will treat equally. Females will not spend like males. Of all these they give a feeling of security.
@heart73 (8)
• Philippines
24 Apr 07
same here with me ... since highschool i find myself more comfortable around male friends. True to me, they don't have the same intrigues that surrounds female friendship, they are easier to carry and please =) most of the time they serve as my older brothers and i feel a sense of security with them. Nonetheless, i do have a handful of girlfriends whom i can share things with that men won't understand, you know... girl things =)
@bindishah (2062)
• India
24 Apr 07
Heart73 i want to mark you as best response but since you have added a comment i cant mark you as BR.
@johnwat (382)
• India
11 May 07
i totally agree with u ....... becox i have gf she is just a friend ....... her friend's comments abou me to her she listen to that all & she cut off with me ........
some people r there
usually echo that she have a bf! or he have a gf ......... i don't like this friends.........
@CaroleeKaufold (1853)
• United States
24 Apr 07
I think it is. My life is filled with men and I get along very well!
@bindishah (2062)
• India
11 May 07
Mine too..some of my closest friends are guys..i can just talk to them much more freely without getting the feeling that im being judged.
@samrat16 (2442)
• India
24 Apr 07
Definately , I would agree with you that females are more comfortable with men. I can say so as I have experienced this many a times. I used to hear what my friends ( girls) used to talk and they were like pulling eachothers leg always and never used to apprciate eachother. It's their habbit that they never want any girl who looks more beautiful or more smarter than her to get in the group.
@joice86 (1078)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
For me, maybe at times. I am more comfortable with gay friends than straight men.lol...because i tend to like men easily so i just avoid them in order for me not to fall in love. I don't know, i easily like someone especially when they are nice and kind with me.
@bindishah (2062)
• India
11 May 07
Yeah..i know what you mean. Girls fall for guys who treat us as friends more than guys who would treat us as gf:)
@bindishah (2062)
• India
11 May 07
i guess coz we dont really compete with out guy friends in any aspect of life. But as you grow older and all your guy friends get married, thats when you long for some girl freinds :)
