do you volunteer your family members or other half for things?

United States
April 24, 2007 8:07am CST
i do it all the time without even thinking. lol. poor hubby gets stuck doing all kinds of things. he is always telling me to not do that to him but most of the time he really doesnt mind. like if someones car is messed up or there pc i tell them to bring it to him and he will fix it for them. he does the same thing to me though alot of times as well. i like to help people and so does he so we just volunteer each other. it doesnt bother me. do you do that or does people you know do it to you and if so how do you feel when they do?
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• United States
24 Apr 07
It's great that you hubby doesn't mind doing these things - or does he? Does he wish you would stop volunteering him? Neither of us ever believed in much volunteering. Our lives are pretty full without it. Seems like once you begin volunteering yourself for various things, people start expecting you to do more. It's not that I mind doing things for people. I enjoy it, but when it comes down to them beginning to expect things, that's when trouble starts.
@s_accent (208)
• India
24 Apr 07
yes i do things with out others commending me it will be better way to do things individudlly and with full freedom and power that will enhance our power and exihibit our talent and every one will look us in a great way