mature or childish??

Philippines
April 24, 2007 9:39am CST
when it comes to relationship which do you prefer to be with?? a mature or childish one?? why??
11 responses
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
i prefer to be in a mature relationship. i think a relationship is a serious matter and it should be handled with care. there are times when i want to have a childish partner because it is more fun but i am having doubts because it is difficult to handle immature people. they don't find reasons for actions. they are never serious and everything seems to be just a game.
• Malaysia
27 Apr 07
yup. .i agree that mature ones are kind of boring at times.. but.. if you want a long term relationship.. matured ones are better.. right? :)
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
25 Apr 07
well,i want a combination of it..hehe!i dnt want to mature or serious one,i also dont want a childish one..
• Malaysia
27 Apr 07
haha.. is there such people? erm.. i guess that must be me.. haha.. just kidding =P
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
27 Apr 07
Mature one who have kept the child in himself. I dont like too mature or too childish men. May be because i am neighter so mature nor too childish:-)
@angelco (345)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
of course i'll choose the mature one because i want to be with somebody that will boost my self esteem and confidence and i know that they can handle things that are complicated and they have enough knowledge...actually with somebody who has mature mind, can lead you to direct path and you can finish or do the things easily unlike with a childish mind they are still happy go lucky and not serious...and i believe that with somebody who has mature mind can take you to a long lasting relationship :)
@xcjune (162)
• China
7 May 07
They all.I like to make friend with mature because they are mature,and make friend with chidish for their simplication.
@reachravi (453)
• India
7 May 07
A combination of both i guess....coz i will always want my partner to be mature when required and also not to be over mature(be childish sometimes...)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
can i choose both?...two in one hahahah..... i like mature men because they say in terms of problems or serious matter they can help you a lot. i like childish men also because theres still a childish like in me and i think they can make you happy but not too much childish nor mature please because its not good also. for me, both are ok provided its not too much.
@SatoNa (247)
• Indonesia
27 Apr 07
I prefer to be with a mature boyfriend. because I'm childish, even I want to be a mature girl.. I think, someone who is matured will make me learn and become a mature too. Also, usually a mature boyfriend know how to do if his girlfriend is childish or was being angry with him. Because I think, if the girl and the boy are childish, when the girl get angry with her boyfriend, he will become angry too. and the final, they may break up.. So, I don't want to have a childish boyfriend too because I don't want have a short term relationship..
• Malaysia
27 Apr 07
yesh.. i do agree with some the one that reply here.. i prefer a mature one.. i think being with a childish partner is fun.. but.. not for long term.. we can't deny that we will have to face the future.. and also certain problems in our daily life.. the mature one will decide to face it and handle it nicely.. unlike the childish one.. they will say " i dun care about it" or "i'm gonna live life to the fullest" .. things like that.. it's easy to say.. but can they really avoid daily problems? for example.. electric bills,rent,shoppings, .. basically, all the expenses... we do know most of the problem is related to money right? :) .. that's why.. the childish one is not worried about all these problems.. so i still prefer matured girls =)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
I think i would prefer a mature relationship because i want my relationship to last longer, or maybe a lifetime. Sometimes when you have a childish relationship, its enjoyable compare to a mature one but still dont waste time in someone that is not worth it. so ireally prefer a mature one.
• Melbourne, Australia
25 Apr 07
Mature one. A little child in all of us makes things less serious but maturity does make things go along easier.