The situation... My friend broke up with his girlfriend, but something worse.
April 25, 2007 5:57pm CST
Well people, my friend has broken up with his girlfriend a month ago, but since then he seemed to be pretty fine the way i saw it. Anyways they've been dating for 3 months and last month it simply came with an email as he told me, she just said that they couldn't be together. Anyways my friend has been really pissed off at this moment, i think maybe this may be the reason. But he told me more details about the situation, since we have been good friends he seems to tell me alot about these things. Anyways the thing is that she doesn't talk to him, avoids him, doesn't like him at all! Not only that but a classmate of his has told him the real reason why she had broken up with him, this reason was that he changed too much durring their time together. I was shocked that someone who loved him would break up for stupid reasons. I mean PEOPLE DO CHANGE, and you really gotta accept that. She broke up with him because he wasn't himself. I doubt he changed because last time i talked to him, which was about 2-3 days ago, he didn't seem to change. In fact i doubt he did change, He must've just been acting different in front of her... Anyways i feel as though i should try to comfort him or do something... whenever i meet him now, he is mad or stressed.
• Cebu City, Philippines
25 Apr 07
well people change and feelings change. Its juts a matter of getting what we deserve out of relationships and breaking up is one of the hardest things specially when you are not sure whats the reason behind it. For me breaking up someone that I love is smoething that calls for very deep and very serious reasons, beofre I do that I should talk it over and both should decide on things because in the first place its a relationship. I do hope they both talk about this issue and resolve it.
26 Apr 07
if he seem to love his girlfriend but still broke up with her, i guess there's a deep reason behind it. you should talk to your friend since you said you two are real close and he seem to tell you almost everything thats happening to his life. go out with him one day and spend time together, do things you usually together then find a right time to bring out the reason why you want to talk to him. i guess if you two are real bestfriends, he would tell you everything and you can see the difference if he is telling the truth or not. then afterwards, advice him and be there for him as his friend.
25 Apr 07
He appears to view you as a good friend and you would know if that is what he needs! At the very least let hime know that you are there for him if he needs someone to talk to. I am not sure I would comfort him out on the street or in public(as in hugging) unless he innitiated it but a hand on the shoulder type of thing will mean alot to him. In the privacy of the home then take it by ear, don't push it but if you see him "lose it" he will need that hug or whatever. Just be a friend!