How often do you fight with your spouse?

India
April 26, 2007 2:17am CST
At the beginning of married life , We used to fight very often.It was terrible. But now, we understand each other and behave accordingly. We fight less.But when we do fight it is stronger than before. How often do you fight?
5 responses
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Yes, i agree with you. During the first months of married life, my wife and i often fought with each other. This is understandable because we are still on getting know more each other stage. It was really terrible then and we have talk about getting separated. But as time passes by, we get along very well and fights are not that common. We have misunderstanding and arguments but it is often resolved and we don't fight stronger than before. I think it is a matter of acceptance and respect with each other are the reasons for the couple to avoid arguments. Lately, we don't fight. We try to help and assist one another as much as possible. It is not easy but we should always be humble to be happy.Arguments and fightings should be avoided because these things bring the badluck in the house.Goodluck!
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
hi! I really appreciate your good deeds to me.Thanks for marking this one as the best response for this topic. Goodluck to you also and stay happy ok? hope we could be good friends. If you need advise I am just here to help and lend you my hand.Thanks once again!
• India
27 Apr 07
good luck to you too :)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
my husband and i seldom fights and all our fights are very petty. nothing serious. we sometimes have misundertandings but we usually make up immediately after it. we make sure that when we sleep, we don't feel anything bad in our hearts. we speak our hearts out and after that, we'll be okay already.
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
maybe because we are still in our honeymoon stage :) but i hope to remain the same even after 20 or 30 years of marriage.
• India
27 Apr 07
Thats really good but i don't think eeryone can be like that
@ellijah (244)
• Nigeria
26 Apr 07
I dont think that it is good for spouse for fight.they should disagree at times with each other to agree again when each of them sit down to know each other point on why they disagree on certain issue.i think if the man sees himself as the head of the house he should not impose law of the wife and not see himself as what ever he says is final.they home should be run mostly on democratic manner.it is permitted for them to querrel for a little time and agree almost immediately on issues.Again i think most spouse like behaving funny to their partner expecailly if he/she is not working.i still repeaat that it is not good for spouse to fight dont use your house or any where as a ring for fighting.whos chhildren do you want to spoil.your children are not your property.they belong to God.so when you fight you are installed that culture into them to.please dont fight again.stop the fighting.um you are hurting me now.i dont want to see any of your get hurt.promise me you wont fight again and make me happy. i love you and your spouse but God loves you more than i do
• India
27 Apr 07
u mean u never fight? that is really gr8. :)
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Hello there! I am Angel and I am from the Philippines. My hudband and I are married for more than five years now. The first couple of years, like you, we fought alot over the smallest things. If I'd count, it's about a few times a day. But after that, we rarely fight anymore. I guess we learn to know each other really well and we both know what would piss of the other. It is really nice but like you too, the fight becomes more deeper or because of a deeper reason. But what's important is that we are able to overcome them and we are still together and happy up to now. It's all part of any relationship.
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
We were just 11 months married, and we were fighting very often, even it is just simple things for others, we have just an argument. maybe because it was an adjustment period for us, sometimes im tired and see things that he had done wrong, then thats the time we will had an arguments.
• India
27 Apr 07
first few months after mariiage is really difficult.Be patient and you'll learn to cope.