Are you afraid of people who have been in jail?
By purplehaze
@purplehaze (661)
Philippines
April 26, 2007 3:15am CST
What if you discovered that one of your friends has actually been put to jail before for a crime? You have been friends for quite a while already and you know that he is a good person. But would your friendship change somehow knowing that he has been sentenced to jail for a crime or would you accept him completely and his past?
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@darkzzt (757)
• Canada
26 Apr 07
no i wouldnt if the person i know is a good person. it depends what the jail sentence was for though. i remember hearing that steve pavlina from stevepavlina.com said he was in jail for a while but he totally recovered and started a new life that abides laws, rules and regulations.
if i didnt know the person, my first impression would not be so good for them and it would take time to recognize them as a good person, assuming they really are a good person.
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@micamyx (916)
• Philippines
26 Apr 07
I will be shocked at first but then I will still accept him/her because he/she is already a dear friend to me. My dad used to be in a rehab and I was even proud to flaunt to my classmates that he went there for 6 months. Others may not understand this thing but getting out of jail/rehab is a big fullfilment already.
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@spiritwolf52 (2300)
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27 Apr 07
It would have to depend on what his crime was. If he killed, raped or robbed someone then I would say I would be afraid of him. There is no excuse for violent crimes and that I couldn't overlook. If it was something minor, then I wouldn't act any different to him than I did before his troubles.
@ibsnet (1268)
• India
28 Apr 07
There is not to fear with him. He may be guilty and if he feels he was guilty, then that is good. If you find that after jail he is still adamant of what happened to him you should try to avoid him since he may have developed some wrong habits. If you really love your friend try to first understand what the actuality was then try to persuade him, try to know whether if he have learned anything after this incident, does he repent of his fault. If all these answer are positive then you must support him to get him back to the normal life. And if these all get a negative answer you just try to avoid him because of his changed nature.






