what should a person first think of family or himself?

April 26, 2007 4:38pm CST
i have many friends and no doubt some of them prefer themselves before their family. this thing pinches me a bit that how can a person be so selfish? a family fully supports him whenever he is in problems and these guys are not doing justice with them what will you suggest these guys? i need your help.
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• United States
26 Apr 07
It totally depends. In order to take care if your family, you need to be able to take care of yourself. Now, I would never put my family out, but I need to be the best person I can be to make my family feel the best. Because when momma's not happy.. lol
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@opinione (749)
• Italy
26 Apr 07
I prefer my family! Exactly my son & my wife. then comes me.
@Beertjie (977)
• South Africa
26 Apr 07
I feel the same as B. If I am not ok then I look after my family. I also agree theat family comes first. If I must make a dicision about something that would benefit me or my family more, I would make the dicision for the benifit of my family. I am not married so it differs a littles bit. I see a married person as one with his/her family. One cannot make any dicisions without concidering your family. If you are not married then you can be a bit selfish at times, especialy when it come to things concerning your future. Does it make sense?