What women really love?

@iszo07 (472)
Malaysia
April 27, 2007 4:07am CST
This is a million dollar question. Does women really love men for what they are or for the money? OR maybe for the sense of security? If I were a twin of Brad Pitt but with much less money, will women out there still fall in love with me?
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@mystery5 (350)
• India
27 Apr 07
There is no standard answer to this. There are many women who are purely after money - for a while. After they marry a very rich man, who does not interest them at all emotionally, they will start to look for a man they can really love. Women look for men who care, who can understand their feelings without being told about it explicitly. Intelligent women like their men to be intelligent too, and a lot of them love to have intellectually stimulating conversations with their partners.
@mwalidji (200)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
when i was a little younger i would prefer a man who i love so much... but now after opening my eyes in the world i finally realize that its not only love we needed most... i tried to realize that security should be with it... What is love if your not secure? What will happen if your the only one in love? it would hurt so much... Love is a two way process... love should be answered by love itself... i dont know for other ladies in there...
@iszo07 (472)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 07
In other words, there is no such thing of true love. I guess..:)
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
27 Apr 07
Why all of us like so much to live in stereotypes? "The women...the men..." Nobody is equal. I cant reply what "the women" love in one man, i can tell what i love and this is a normal man, without so much money, without so much beauty, but a person who can attract me...and this is a question of chemistry between two people.
@envyash (85)
• India
28 Apr 07
What women really want, is a man who understands them, and appreciates feelings instead of things. Most men spend all their day in the office, so that they can earn a lot and buy their women everything they need. But what the women really want is their time, their attention and their affection. To a man, expressing love means getting involved physically. To a woman, expressing love means hugs, kisses, lots of talking and devotion of time to each other. Besides, women don't LOVE brad pitt, they just like his looks.
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@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
27 Apr 07
I am a woman, and I definitely love my man because of who he is, and it has nothing to do with money at all. I know there are some women out there who do like money, but I love my husband because he loves and supports me and takes good care of me, and he is a great person on the inside. I would rather be poor and living in a shack and be with him than to be rich and living in a mansion without him.
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• Singapore
29 Apr 07
This is quite a complicated question because different women would be attacted by different things. In general, I think most women would love men who are affectionate and with whom they share chemistry. Basically women need to feel loved, cared for and respected. Having said that, there are also unfortunately women who would marry for money. Yes, I'm sure if you looked like Brad Pitt, even with less money, I'm sure there would be women who'd fall for you if the chemistry is right.
@angelco (345)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
actually there are some women who go for money not for the true love to the man they love however, there are women who go for the character of the guy how he was grown up and values he possess...women really love to be cared, love to be secured and understand...
• China
27 Apr 07
I think women need care,be loved dearly,as the sense of security,because they know,someone concern them as angel
• Malaysia
27 Apr 07
For me as a woman, I prefer love and security rather than money. Eventhough we have lots of money but money can't buy everything..
@brand4less (1061)
• Indonesia
27 Apr 07
i think it depends on the woman. my hubby was nothing when i met him. i even must worked 2 jobs for us. but thanks for his hardwork then situation getting better n better n i even no need to work at all. also he is more appreciate and love me even more when knowing that i'll never leave him in any condition except if he's cheating on me of coz :)