Remaining virgin for the ONE.

@ellie26 (4139)
Malaysia
April 27, 2007 4:10am CST
Most women, to remain a virgin until married is utmost important. It is a symbol of true love to the person who they are marrying. But what do you think about men who dont bother to keep their virginity until married? Do you think it is fair for the women who 'save up' for their wedding night? For me, both must be virgin so it will equal their sacrifices. Whats your opinion?
6 responses
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
27 Apr 07
I think it is a personal decision for both involved. Some regret not keeping themselves until marriage and some don't. I believe that the symbol of true love is in your heart, not in your reproductive area. I understand what you mean, but in this day and age, it is highly unusual to find someone who manages to keep their virginity until their wedding day. I say kudo's to you for doing it!
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 07
Your comment is very interesting. There are people who uses virginity as an excuse to divorce their wife. But I never heard of men being divorced because of their virginity.
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
27 Apr 07
Sometimes it`s not sucrifation. Most yoga followers recomend virginity before the marriage but for both sides.And the reasons are not just religious, there is direct connection with the health.
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@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
27 Apr 07
Oh, that serious? Thank you for the information.
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
27 Apr 07
It is essential to maintain vifginity till marriage, for both men and women. It is the wonderful and invaluealbe gift a person can give to his/her life partner.
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@urbandekay (18278)
27 Apr 07
Well, that may be the case in Malaysia but her in UK most women are not virgins when they marry all the best urban
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• Philippines
27 Apr 07
Nowadays, virginity is not that important anymore. People don't ask each other are you still a virgin? they just explore it and they find out that their partner is no longer a virgin. Eventhough they are not virgin, they still accept one another and still pursue for marriage. People with small minds think that virginity is important. It is not. What really matters is you love the person and you love the whole person and not only a part of her or him. I think it is not really a big deal. We do have our own opinion but all i can say is love doesn't choice and love has no conditions. if virginity is a must, well a guess many people will not marry because there are a lot of people who were devirginized already.Goodluck!
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• Philippines
27 Apr 07
i think thats right but these days virginity is no longer that important, so many people have becaome so liberated that they no longer think about their future relationship, if you really love him or her you'll accept the fact that he or she is no longer a virgin, for me being the first is not important what's most important is being the last. dude this only my opinion ^_^