How to be a perfect person???

Indonesia
April 27, 2007 4:25am CST
have much money?? have a happiness in our life?? have a happy family?? have a good looking face.. etc,,
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@AKRao24 (27424)
• India
27 Apr 07
First of all Welcome to Mylot Community dear friend! I find your topic of discussion very interesting and at the same time I am having a feeling that you are bit confused yourself about the Sucess and perfection in the life! Dear friend there is a famous saying that 'No body is perfect!', this means that it is practically impossible to have all the qualities which are good in any one individual nd at thecsame time he should not have and ny negative points with him! Can it possible? In India we say the Moon is beautiful but it also does have scar in it, Sun is the source of life but it is too hot! That means with every positive thing there has to be some negative thing also , then only there comes a balance and this makes the individual inperfect! By earning money you can never be a perfect man, having happiness and happy family and having good lookks won't even make you a perfect person! Being born as a Human being, we are blessed with the most evolved brain and because of this our intelligence ins the maximum when compared with other life forms in this World! So it becomes our responsibility to contribute something as a Human being to this mankind and life form, how small it may be, which will make some change to this world! I think by doing so we can have self satisfaction and we can become role models for others ! By doing good deeds and contributing to the man kind in every possible way I think , you can make your life worthy and purposeful, which ultimately makes the difference between a good and bad person ! Please don't be confused and never try to have the feeling that by attaining physical possessions you can become a perfect man! Be a ideal ward to your parents, be a ideal spouce to your spouce, be a proud parent to your kids and a affectionate and intimate friend to your friends, then see the difference in your life ! Don't run after the impratical things like "perfection" which is like mirage , you will always feel that you have almost reached it but then you are disappointed to reach the point to see that there is nothing there! Thanks friend for initiating such an intertesting topic and Wish you all the best!
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
27 Apr 07
Money is not permanent. We do not know when it will go and how. Beauty is skin deep. The happiness it gives is not deep but only momentary. Happiness is in you. A person with lots of money may not be happy but a person who is poor and ugly may be very happy and contented in life. Hence in my opinion, Happy family is what is preferable. After a day long hard work, when you come home, when somebody of your own, is there to give mental support to you, to take care of you even if it is a cup of coffee, when somebody asks you how was your day and say never mind it was bad, will be good tomorrow, just how relieved and happy you feel? This happiness is soul touching. It is a contented life. People who have a loving family, only they will understand what this happiness is. No other thing in the world is compromised for this, not even happiness, beauty or money.
@asmurthy (2461)
• India
27 Apr 07
Money is required for every thing in the world. To have a home money is required. To have family money is required. To feed family, to protect family, to provide health to family, to educate children money is required. Do you want to make extra money, make a friend of me and i will send some good sites where you can make money and make your family happy.
• Malaysia
27 Apr 07
No one is perfect. Because life itself is not perfect. We have weaknesses.. we have ups and down... That is what make human a human. And this is what make human interesting... I never want a perfect life nor perfection... because we are just human.. who make mistake and learn from that for a better future..
@qoo_rie (428)
• Indonesia
27 Apr 07
NOBODY's PERFECT n don't try that... mean don't try to perfect urself.. somehow it brings u more burden than u are... believe me... there is another thing u can do than trying to be a perfect one. i don't like a perfect person, coz to me they're trying to hide themselves, trying to cover their unperfect... Geeeee. happinesss is very abstract thing to xplain.. :)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
there no perfect person in this world, you can never have all the things you want or if you could youll still see that something is still missing, you dont have to be perfect just be contented in what you have and doesnt have in your life and youll never ask for more
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
27 Apr 07
There is no perfect person just be the best you can be. and eveything will fall in place. believe in God.
@bindishah (2062)
• India
27 Apr 07
No one is perfect in this world. We all have some issues or the other. Some people have a money problem, some feel they are not good looking, some have family problems, etc. The important thing is to not get bogged down in the race for perfection - just accept yourself the way you are.
@Gwapako_28 (2140)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
There is no such thing as perfect. Except God! Life is full of sacrifices,pain,heartaches but inspite of that, we can have happiness too. Like when we have money,family,good looks and etc. But everything is temporary. They wont last forever.
@smileydew (171)
• India
27 Apr 07
hai money makes the royal life,but charity makes the name for the soulafter expiry too so i like to say charity in means of helping others and lovely environment with others then money and happy family and good position and luxury life is happy and for a perfect person, must be agood student ,good life partner then good parent and good ideal fellow to the society is enough for alife i think so