What is love?
By jianguoni
@jianguoni (81)
China
April 27, 2007 8:44am CST
Sometimes I really feel that I really know how to love but sometimes I think I am not quite understand what love is in the end! A people would say that true love is not for the other side ... It seems to me absolutely love pay! can be absolutely pay even true love?
6 responses
@drizzle_anne (381)
• Philippines
27 Apr 07
To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. BUt then on suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer not to love is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness.
@jianguoni (81)
• China
29 Apr 07
haha thanks drizzle_anne,but your piont is very difficult,I can't understand it anymore.
@drizzle_anne (381)
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
do you speak english? if you do then you'll understand what i mean.
@jianguoni (81)
• China
29 Apr 07
^_^ thanks drezzle_anne, I can't speak english very well,I'm a chinese,but I like english and I learning it now,so complexed english speaking is difficult to me, but I can trying to study what you saying,thank you again.
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@H2hydrogenz (574)
• Indonesia
27 Apr 07
When you love someone, you love him because you want to love him, not because he is rich, cool, kind and many other. If you love him because of those kind of traits, then it is not love. can you see the difference here?
@jianguoni (81)
• China
29 Apr 07
yes , someone love another , not because he is rich ,cool. this is real love.
I think so.
@H2hydrogenz (574)
• Indonesia
30 Apr 07
Loving someone without expecting any returns is not easy, but it's not hard also. Why? because the answer lies in you. Well good luck.;)
@mohit1123 (564)
• India
27 Apr 07
Not necessary true love happens u can find it. and if u ever do forget what happens or what is needed etc enjoy the moment
@ping_swift (156)
• China
27 Apr 07
someone ever said that :i love you not because of who you are, but because of who i am when i am with you!though i haven't start my love story, but when someday my dream lover coming in to my life,i'll just try to find whether i have the feeling or not.i'm a girl, so i wish i am beloved, it seems selfish.But when one day i am fall in love with someone, i think i'd never lost myself , that's the most important thing that i think!
@luckygav (12)
• China
30 Apr 07
Alright, looks like that you're kinda trapped in dilema of love. You can say that love is the most unpredictable thing in this world, like you can feel it, you need it so much sometimes, you can even live without it (men can never live without love, not only the one between men and women, but for families, parents etc.), but you can ever grap it, or even have it sighted. So what you can only do about love is trying to enjoy it, and to reveal the real meaning lying behind it which is "Love is the crucial part of life, but not all of it."
Bonne chance!
