Have you ever love someone despite the fact that you've been hurt by him/her?
By fatal_ivory
@fatal_ivory (238)
Philippines
April 27, 2007 8:19pm CST
Loving someone takes enough courage and inspiration to do so. It is something that is not forced for you to do. You give it to someone selflessly and without condition. But there are times that it become unfair to you. He/she hurts your feelings and not just that, also physical hurting. Relationship violence is happening in relationships. It is not reported due to fear of the other person's acts when he/she find it out. Or merely because he/she loves that someone even they are hurt in every ways possible.
But is that right? What is your opinion?
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3 responses
@mitch3553 (28)
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
i can say that all marriage is not perfect. youll pass through trials and problems that could hurt you. my marriage is not perfect and we passed through different trials and problems but i still love my hubby even though he hurted me. i did hurt him in small ways as well. i think its just part of a relationship and being hurt would make you a strong and better person. just learn from mistakes and try not to commit them again.
@fatal_ivory (238)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
Yes, you are right in that point. Marriage is not all about happiness. It also means sacrifices and we learned from it. It make us grow as a person and as a partner. Thanks.
@cdparazo (5765)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
Loving someone doesn't give that someone the right to physically hurt or abuse you. It is simply not right and should not be tolerated. I had once a boyfriend who once attempted to strike or slap me and that was the end of our relationship. One should never allow someone to abuse your own person. You deserve better. If love is strong, you could always work out your differences and seek help to avoid voilence or abuse from happening agan. But if it isn't the case, then one should leave the relationship in all haste.
@fatal_ivory (238)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
I agree with you. It should not give a pass for someone to hurt you like that. He should be the last one who will that to you. But life is not always fair, some experience it and just tolerate for a long time because of a hope that her/his love will change that person. Sad but that is the truth to some. Good thing we are not one of them.
@mnflower (1299)
• United States
28 Apr 07
Me I have been in hurtful relationships where I was hurt both mentally and physically and once you let it happen it seems to continue to happen, you can continue to love that person but you must admit to yourself that something was lost somewhere for this to even be possible to happen.NoOne should have to except or tolerate violence in a relationship there is always a way out and noone is going to discredit you if you leave a abusive person..
