Do men get bored easily?

United States
April 27, 2007 11:37pm CST
I was reading a funny joke about marriage the other day, about how men get bored with they're wives. I really thought it was quite funny, until I got to thinking about it. Do men really get bored with us, are we really that unspontanious? I was really puzzled by this and was wondering whether anyone else feels this way, or if men really do. So I have a simple question Men: Do you get bored with your wives? If you do why? Is there anything you would like us to do to make it more interesting ( reasonable). Women: Do you think your husband is bored with you? What haven't you done to make things more interesting? What have you done? I'd like to know what everyone thinks about lovers and spouses getting bored with each other in our day and age, do you think its a cause of most divorces? Is it what leads men/women to cheat, and to leave they're loving wives/husbands? ?
2 responses
@mystery5 (351)
• India
28 Apr 07
I don't think boredom is a big factor in marriages. Maybe they start taking each other for granted, yes that could be possible. Most men who crib about their wives in public often really love them deep down, but are too egoistic to admit it. Regarding breaking up of marriages, I think that it is an unwillingness to change which is the main factor, and not boredom. When spouses are rigid and refuse to change for their spouse, it leads to frustration between the couple, and things keep getting worse if action is not taken quickly. Eventually they think they are making each other miserable and the marriage cannot be saved, so they quit.
@waytovj (268)
• India
28 Apr 07
im only 19 and i might be too young to comment on this but i seriously think that joke you read is just a joke. may be person who made the joke would have got bored but there is nothing like that. its all about love and faith. when you in true love you would need nothing but the person you love. you find a lot of such jokes because they know that these are topics that can easily catch attention its jus their tactic. dont worry about it.