How do you like to handle?

@Lexter (26)
Philippines
April 27, 2007 11:59pm CST
I have a friend who came out from the closet and would like to tell his friends that he is engaging in homosexual activity
2 responses
@diego9774 (172)
• United States
29 Apr 07
You're friend has not changed. He is the same person. It's just now you know more about him. It really is not your place to "out" your friend if you're truly his friend. You would be just be making trouble for him. Don't be a gossip if you truly are a friend.With friends like that,who needs enemies?
@Lexter (26)
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
Exactly you have the point for that. But you cannot make an excuse also that you maybe in doubt to get close to him as a friend. Although its very hard to judge sometime, but I am protecting my reputation and my dignity as well. I am a role model in our town and everyone never doubt of my masculinity. I can make my mouth shut but its very hard to live and mingle to have a friend like him.
• United States
29 Apr 07
If you support intolerance, What kind of role model could you possibly be? I think that It's not your friend that's the problem here. Perhaps your friend is better off without you in his life. And you should give some thought to what's of real importance to you. Being a "popular role model" or being a caring supportive person to the people in your life. Just something to think about.
@lucas528 (323)
• Northern Mariana Islands
28 Apr 07
You shouldn't force yourself to like your friend or to be with him always if you don't want what he's doing. you might wanna try to talk to him if you feel he's doing something wrong.
@Lexter (26)
• Philippines
28 Apr 07
Thanks for the advice, we where friends since then and it hurt me a lot that he is changing. We used to play basketball together and share secrets and other stuuf.