You love the guy but you can't??!!!!

Philippines
April 28, 2007 10:41am CST
The other day I posted a discussion entitled:"Does age really matter in a relationship?"Well...so far, most of the answers were,"No, it didn't matter coz as long as the both of you are loving each other to hell with other people say..." But what if the guy/girl is your best friend's Ex? And like when they were still together, you were the one who helped them patch up when they encountered problems. And now the guy likes you.. what would you do?
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• United States
29 Apr 07
Best friend's exs are generally off limits. Unless she says it's fine (and MEANS it, not just saying it to be nice). If you choose to pursue him after that, you're gonna have to choose between them. Guys come and go. Even if you "love" him, you can easily love someone else down the road. True friends are irreplacable.
28 Apr 07
I'm sorry but your best friends ex is a no go area unless it wasn't a long meaningful relationship and she says she really doesn't mind. If your thinking about this you have to ask your best friend if it's ok. You can tell if she means it when she says it is so if she sounds upset don't do anything.