If your Lover wants you to change yourself then?!

@FOUZAN_1 (331)
Pakistan
April 28, 2007 3:36pm CST
Will you change your appearence, personality, style, habbits for him/ her?! Is it fair for the lover to do that?! Do mostly Girls ask Boys to cahnge?!
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6 responses
@alicebun (204)
• China
29 Apr 07
In my opinion,if my lover loves me,then he must love me currently.Maybe for those personality which I also think should be changed,I will change them,others,I think I will never do it!Or I myself been changed are not me!
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
I think i will not change myself for who i am just to be love by someone, because if i do that i am not the one he love, the things he wants me to be is the one he love not me. Maybe if i will change myself its for myself not for him, not for his love.
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
28 Apr 07
Change in ones habbits style is quite common after marriage. I personally have changed a lot after marriage. My husband too has changed his eating habits, dress up hair style to my likings as he wants to see me happy.
@Jamian (2603)
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
if my lover wants me to change something, i will try my best what she wants
@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
29 Apr 07
Hi Fouzan, I dont know if most boys ask there girls to change. I wouldnt dare change for anyone, and my husband would never ask me to change myself, he met and married me for me and loves me for who I am. Changing for others makes me think of robots and control freaks... You change for yourself and for the things that make you feel good, not let others change you... I wouldnt dare think of changing my husband either...
@euqaj18 (252)
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
In my personality no.. I will not change . but in my appearance I consider the comments of my partner.. in style not really it is hard for me to shift to another attitude in my style.