if you will let your mother know you are unhappy?
By sallyxu126
@sallyxu126 (1184)
China
April 28, 2007 9:34pm CST
As a daughter, when I live together with my mother, I always share all my feelings with my mother and tell her what happened today and what is the interesting thing today .
when I am happy,sure I will tell my mother and let she be happy for me .
when I am uphappy, I also let her know and get some advice from her .
but now,I don't live together with her and it is so far from here now.
so I only tell her I am happy .
when I am not happy, I will not let her know as I don't want to let her worry about me .
if you will let your mother know you are unhappy?
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9 responses
@rockerwitch (538)
• Philippines
2 May 07
AS of now, I still live with my mom so we talk all the time. i do let her know if i'm not happy. i tell her everything. but i try not to tell her about the unhappiness because she's in kind of a depression and i don't wanna add to that..
@Lavera1 (896)
• United States
29 Apr 07
I am so pleased, Sallyxu, that you have a mother that you can share your feelings with and possibly she keeps your discussions private between the both of you.
For I have three daughters and if they share things with me I can not discuss them with the other sisters unless I have thier permission to do so. For I value thier trusts and if broken it is very heard to get back.
I did not have a close intimate relationship with my mother.
So again I am very happy for your relationship with your mom.
@mel0dy (49)
• United States
30 Apr 07
I'm in the same situation with you. I used to share everything with my mother, good and bad. But now that I am so far away from home I'm reluctant to let her know for all the misfortunes I have. I might tell her though if there's something that she absolutely should know. But more or less when we talk (and we talk every day) I don't bother her with little things and ups and downs.
@s0hneyo (9)
• Pakistan
30 Apr 07
well as a daughter i share with my mother alot .. i tell her all day happenings as i feel more comfortable with her when i am upset she always guides me in a better way because she advices me like a frnd rather than a mother. She is always there n open to any suggestions and questions.
@juicebox (106)
• United States
29 Apr 07
I never let my mom know I'm unhappy. Once in a while I might tell her that something is bothering me, but not to the point where I am unhappy. Somewhere along the way I always feel as though she'll judge me, as close as we are. Also I don't want to burden her with my problems because I feel that if I were her, I wouldn't want to hear myself rant either.
@alpha_release (119)
• United States
29 Apr 07
My mother never really cares much as to whether I'm happy or sad. She can be a very selfish person. So maybe I will tell her when I'm happy and unhappy, but I don't expect her to respond to it.
