can you resist the urge to criticize?
By jlara_gtr34
@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
Philippines
April 29, 2007 2:42am CST
when we criticize another person, it says nothing about that person. instead, it says something about our own need to be critical. criticism is nothing more than a bad habit. think about how you feel immediately after you criticize someone. likely, you feel deflated and ashamed, almost as if you're the one who has been attacked. do you agree on this guys?
2 responses
@spyjob (214)
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
There are two sides of criticism, a positive and a negative. Positive criticism are those that helped the one who is being criticized like you tell a friend that the dress she is wearing is not suitable of her age and your intention is for her not to become the laughing stock. While sometimes, we criticize negatively because of jealousy or envy or someone does not conform with us. Hate makes it worse because we have not seen any beauty in that person when making our criticism. If there's an urge in us to criticize negatively, let us always remember the golden rule and perhaps it may guide us to be more sensible.
