How to come out of the pain of love?

India
April 29, 2007 8:54pm CST
My heart is broken a yr ago, but still i'm not in good state.i cant manage to get out of it. any suggestions?
7 responses
@magayon (11)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
broken heart is really one of the saddest part of our life. but pls specific of being a broken hearted. there are many things that we can determine about broken heart. we can say that we are broken hearted with our parent, friends and the one we really love as girlfriend or boyfriend. but of course if we say i am a broken hearted, one thing that register our mind is that we are broken heart by our girl friend or boy friend, right? i guess i am right about what you say you are broken hearted. i may not be a good adviser but am sure i can give you some message about broken heart.
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
take the experience of my friend who was a broken hearted for more than 1 year and he was so lonely, crying all the time as if the world is a curse for him. until one day he found out that he was with a group, a catholic orgnization composed of young man and woman. and he accepted God as the center of his life. he enjoys the company of the group he belonged. he was an active member of that group. and now he is happy with his life and contented what God gave to him. just give your time to the LORD and surrender everything to HIM and am sure your broken heartedness will be healed...
• China
30 Apr 07
a bad memory is what you need. make some new friends, force yourself to forget that person, the things you have done together. Just believe in yourself, that without him or her, you can also have a happy life.
• India
30 Apr 07
yes you people are right. i should not think of the past and should move on to the future. thnaks a lot.
@zjenikka (292)
• Philippines
2 May 07
How to come out of the pain of love? You PRAY hard and ask for guidance. Talk over the pain with people whom you know you can talk with. Then let it go and move on..
@fazelath (1174)
• India
30 Apr 07
the person has broken your heart,is that person worth enough to be remembered for so long,forget that person u dont deserve that person,u deserve someone better,dont u,keep ur self busy,
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
year ago?gosh!its a long period of time. you should move on. there are lots of reasons why you are in pain after a year. i guess, youre still in love with that person and you cant accept that you two are no longer with each other, maybe the person failed you, etc. you should move on. dont focus yourself to that person anymore. its been a year and its too long you see. do things that will make you busy and ofcourse happy like going out with friends, malling, shopping, chatting, writing, reading, travelling etc. do things that interest you. start going on dates also. if there are things that still reminds you of that person and you feels pain more then avoid that thing. you should accept what had happened, forgive that person and start forgetting it. pick up the lessons and start living in your own. and believes that everything happens for a reason and a purpose. always take it in a positive way. in time, the right one will come to you when you least expected it. and lastly, always pray and ask God's help always and you see, you'll be just fine. takecare and Godbless..goodluck.
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
I've been heartbroken before. The only thing that helped me out of it was ACCEPTANCE. Accepting helped me went through the heartbreak smoothly. It eased the pain I felt. Letting go willingly without sourgraping helped me moved on.
@sallyxu126 (1185)
• China
30 Apr 07
pain - painful .............ing
Maybe you can start your new love then you might forget before. Time is the best medicine but you can add some new fresh things to your life. so I think you should not always pay attention to the past and always try your best to forget the past things. you only have to pay attention to something new and then you will find you already forgot the past when you don't wake up to. and let yourself be busy is also a method to forget the pain. hope you can come out of the pain asap. good luck with you.