why do you chose your mom and you`re not chosing your dad?

@kardel (199)
Romania
April 30, 2007 5:47am CST
Can you please tell me why mother it`s the greatest for all kids? it`s rarely when girls in specialy love their dads, most of child love their mother much more...why it`s that?
4 responses
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
I think id rather choose my mother than my father because my mother is the one that taking care of me since i am a baby. I really feel her concerns and worries when it comes to my health. And i always see my mother doing all the household and hard works in the house and still having time for me to listen to my stories and play with me when i was young.
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@kardel (199)
• Romania
30 Apr 07
You`re right! i think that too! dad doesn`t have time for me, but mom, will always have 5 minutes to talk with her, even if she it`s verry busy with the house..
• India
30 Apr 07
we know that both mom and dad are most respectful and lovely in this world as we dont find the god but we live with god as in the face of mom and dad as both are the world most important....dad and mom as they are so superior to us and we love both but mostly mom ... dad always tell us to do only right thing and we do it if we do any fault then dad punish us but mom save us from that punishment mom always see our quility but not dad as dad also think so but he have to be strick if he dont so strickness then he cant run his family ....mom always give us love when we are in the problem then he save us .... it is not in the all cases as in the some cases the position is reverse as dad is so interesting .....and in the some cases bothone....but it is in some rare cases........
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@kardel (199)
• Romania
30 Apr 07
yeah, you`re right! who is going to see you`re back? yes, you know...you`re mom! she will always watch you, even if you`re 40 years old!
@Gemmygirl1 (2867)
• Australia
1 Jul 07
I don't think kids choose to love one parent more than the other, i think you'll find the initial connection is just the fact that Mum is the one who is always around more, since the Dad is USUALLY (not always though) the money earner - so he's home less often. I guess i was the same as a child since my Dad was the money earner but as i got older, i was a real Daddie's girl, i used to play sport, go driving, the usual stuff with my Dad - rather than my Mum. I think kids connect with 1 parent more than the other as they get older depending on their interests & social activities but i don't think any child actually LOVES 1 more than the other.
@luay673 (153)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Apr 07
coz mom's are sweet and more approchable than most dad's. while fathers has the strong personality, that sometimes the children are afraid of.