Love At First Sight

Nigeria
April 30, 2007 3:01pm CST
Do you believe in love at first sight? Has it ever happened to you or to people you know? What do you think attracts people to each other? Psychologist have carried out research that it takes us only a few seconds to make up our minds if we are attracted to them, and we decide their suitability as a prospective partner. Looks and body language are what we look for in the first instance. But we pick or choose points as to the persons history and their personality from their voice and the way they talk.
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@maemaemae (341)
• Philippines
9 May 07
i don't believe at love at first sight because at first sight, you won't really know the person...how can you love someone you don't know?
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• Nigeria
12 May 07
but i think you could get attracted to someone you don't know
• New Zealand
1 May 07
I generally fall in love every time i see some sexy chick ...but i think its attraction rather than love ..There is thin line between love and attraction.Most people get attracted at first sight and they thinks its love...
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• Nigeria
12 May 07
yeah i think you are definately right
@aliyaa (580)
• India
19 May 07
I cant call that attraction when we first see somebody as love ... Love is the one which we feels to somebody only if we know his/her mind so closely... That can never happen at the first sight ..But its sure that we feel some kind of attraction to someone which we never feel to others ...But for this attraction to become real love ,They should have to know each other in person...
@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
30 Apr 07
I do not belive in love at first sight. Love is a strong thing that u can only feel when u know a person, and u never know a person just by looking at him. You can love the way he looks and u can love the way he acts.. You can also be attracted - but love... No - atleast I do not think so!
• Nigeria
12 May 07
well i think its attraction like you said but then what would make you attracted to someone? aint't it the fact that you seems to like that person?
• United States
30 Apr 07
I believe in attraction at first sight, but not love at first sight. I think love is made up of our physical attraction as well as our mental attraction to the other person. After some real discussion is when you start to make up your mind.
• Nigeria
12 May 07
well i feel you, and i feel you are right
• United States
30 Apr 07
I most definitely believe in love at first sight! It used to happen a lot to me, that I'd meet a new person and maybe shake their hands or introduce myself and I'd feel a sudden, intense feeling of affection towards them, just like a spark. It wasn't ever love, but it was liking at first sight, I suppose. Also, I've had times where I've met someone or looked at a person, and I feel immense dislike, just for no apparent reason. And maybe if you can have that, than you can have the love. But I've never really fallen in love at first sight. I think one of the hugest parts of attraction is whether you can talk with a person or not. Or whether you need to.
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• Nigeria
12 May 07
lol i think your love at first sight is rather going to far if you feel like that to everyone. I think what you feel is attraction