How long can you take it?

Philippines
May 1, 2007 3:25am CST
You love him? Good! But unto what extent you are willing to stay with someone you love? I mean is there any limitation? What is the situation that will mwke you leave him no matter how much you love him?
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12 responses
• India
1 May 07
There is always no limitation on how long a guy/girl wants to stay on in the relationship. Its the understanding between them that is important which will help them stick on. Breakup always usually depends on the situation that prevails at that time, we can never say what comes in between & they have to breakup.
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• Philippines
1 May 07
I guess you have your point...
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@funnysis (2619)
• United States
21 Jun 07
usually there can be a time limit if the person is just lusting no matter which it be male or female the time will be till they find the one they love but find someone to fill needs of them.So there may or may not be a time frame.
@mcjeannie (704)
• Philippines
20 Jun 07
I have been cheated by my ex(Now)husband. It has been my liberation moment when I decided to leave him. The extent to why I eneded such "crap" marriage was I was jobless on that time yet it was the maid he TRUSTED.His salary is all his, he gives the budget to ou maid instead of me taking our finances.Matter of fact, because of this, I got an overseas job and guess what...The maid was his love object! So today, I could only say...Couldn't be much happier now! Having a good life, a perfect loving hubby, and as I said FREEDOM from ALL the CRAP such marriage gave! The TRUTH of my realization that he actually didn't LOVE me at ALL, was the greatest of my discover, that is TODAY I am set FREE!
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
Good for you...atleast you know that there will be a brighter life ahead of you...
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@stacyv81 (5904)
• United States
20 Jun 07
well, I fight for what I want...with that said. I do not want someone who would cheat on me. I know people arent perfect and make mistakes, but cheating is one I will not tolerate. I feel that there is a commitment, and I will stay and try to make things work as long as I feel I am not the only one working on things. A relationship takes two people, equal give and take, they must both be on the same page and communicate effectively for it to work. That is my opinion =)
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• Philippines
20 Jun 07
I've been cheated once... and it hurts lke hell.. I understand what you mean. Thank you for the response.
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• Philippines
2 May 07
as long as we still love each other and we are still willing to continue our relationship...
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• Philippines
20 Jun 07
yeah love is the reason of all...
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@mcaf1970 (140)
• Philippines
2 May 07
yes, there's limitation. if he lets me feel that he doesn't feel any special love for me anymore. why should i force myself to someone who doesn't love me anymore? i will just move on w/ my life. anyway, time heals all wound.
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• Philippines
6 May 07
I agree! cheers!!!
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@amitntpc (55)
• India
1 May 07
i would stay with her for ever.there is no time limit.
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• Philippines
6 May 07
Wow thats really sweet...
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• Philippines
1 May 07
Love should not be bounded by any bounderies and agreements. It should be a give and take relationship. Love the person for who they are and for what they are... meaning not the advantages that we can get out of them.
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• Philippines
1 May 07
Youre right! Dont try changing your partner but do not tolerate his wrong doings...
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@butterfly39 (3907)
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
If he cheated on me i think that would be the worst thing. If I caught him, then there is no need to talk , all I want is to let him fix his things and get out of my sight for keeps. I don;t want to see his face again. that's it.
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@bluishrose (2291)
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
I love him fully! To the extent that i'll give everything and sacrifice for his happiness. Infidelity and being disrespectful can make me leave the man. That's the thing that i can't really handle!
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@hoghoney (3749)
• United States
21 Jun 07
well after trying to keep a marriage of 10 years together with a husband now ex that cheated on me with 4 different woman I said that was enough for me and left. I was a very abusve marriage and I took all that I would take then. Now in my life I dont wait that long to cut the ties if I would ever deal with that kind of life again.
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• United States
22 Jun 07
If he hits me, I would have to leave.
@steney (1418)
• Philippines
21 Jun 07
For people in love, it's really hard to say where to draw the line and give up on somebody. Feelings are too strong to control that sometimes it refuses to follow what the brain dictates and just. One must be strong enough to go against these feelings and stand for what is right. Luckily for me, I can control my feelings and I don't lose sight of what is right even while deeply in love. If I feel I've been taken granted or taken advantaged of, I leave the relationship and move on. It doesn't always mean stopping to love a person instantly, as that takes time. But getting yourself out before it gets too bad is important, especially with abusive relationships. After that, only then can you heal yourself.