Fear to marry

@smartraz (128)
India
May 1, 2007 9:38am CST
I am very much afraid to marry.I feel what type will be my partner,how can i cope with her. I fear as there is a chance that she can have opposite qualties of mine.. What to do, how to escape from this fear any advice
5 responses
@kcrysea (196)
• Philippines
1 May 07
how long have you been together? thats the most important thing to consider. You have to get to know her first... fear is always there, but if the love that binds you together is stronger than the fear that you have right now, it doesnt matter at all...
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@magica (3710)
• Bulgaria
1 May 07
You are too young. And i dont know in your country how is the situation with the marriages. Are you choose your partner allone? If you choose allone, this choice is too important to be made so impulsively/ even many people do it and later sorry/ You must know her very well, to cope with her,to be friends, common interests ,feelings. And this needs more time. Dont hurry.
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@asteriskec (1074)
• Philippines
1 May 07
You have to understand that first of all, you're not alone in this type of feeling. There are lots like you who are afraid to marry, to get committed to someone else, to be in a relationship. You just really have to learn how to trust someone and love someone unconditionally. Marriage is not an easy thing to get into and you really have to be set in your decision.
1 May 07
Marriage is a huge step and it shouldn't be taken lightly. I think you should find some that you have some of the same interests with. You dont have to have all the same qualities, after all you dont want someone exactly like you, but someone you share common interests and goals with. Dont be afraid to love when you have found the right one you will know. Don't stress over it, just be happy and have fun! Good luck to you!
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@rodeotexas (1154)
• United States
1 May 07
Find someone you really love and someone who you have things in common with. If you get along with the person over time then think about getting married but don't rush into it.
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