When someone criticize you

@capssy07 (207)
Philippines
May 2, 2007 6:49pm CST
For some people it is not easy to handle critism. It open up or may hurt us. For some critism it really contructive that if we are criticize we tend to grow and change for the better. And there are also some that destroys us. HOw should a person handle critism? Are the important? Why?
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@joycer (498)
• Sri Lanka
4 May 07
Criticisms, whether good or bad it still should be looked at the brighter side. It's just sometimes other people criticize in a very arrogant manner or uses words that will really hurt your feelings and that is not helping. You are right, that it could destroy us too. We must be patient in handling them, or else it will only make us fall more. It is also important. We need to know how they perceive us, our works or whatever. In that way if there are flaws, we can correct them and not repeat it anymore.
• United States
3 May 07
I try to take criticism in stride and not get too worked up about it. Sometimes, I even take the time to learn from it. It also depends to me who is criticizing. If it is someone that has no room to criticize or who I could care less what they think, that makes a huge difference as well. I think we should all learn to take it and not let it ruin us. Just my opinion !