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Malaysia
May 3, 2007 3:14am CST
If eveybody hates you, do you think there's something wrong in your personality? or do you think this will not happen.
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@howhigh (757)
• Canada
3 May 07
I think if everyone you know hates you then you either a) don't really know what everyone thinks or b) you should meet more people! I disagree that some people have personalities hated by everyone! But if a lot of people hate you maybe you should listen to what they hate and think on it a bit.. but you can't live your life by what everyone else thinks
• Malaysia
4 May 07
I definitely agree that we can't live our life by what everyone else thinks :)in short, we can't please everybody :)
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@howhigh (757)
• Canada
4 May 07
yeah exactly but you still make decisions to please some people and not others.. do you have moral values? when is it right to make judgment..
• Malaysia
4 May 07
I guess when you wrote this sentence " BUt you still make decisions to please SOME PEOPLE and not others" I think your referring to love ones or someone who is close to you. You may agree or not but it is still hard to please even those close ones. I do have moral values howhigh, how about you :)?
@opinione (749)
• Italy
4 May 07
In my experience I can say that when I had the impression that everybody hated me, I simply had looked for friends in the wrong place. Sometimes you are just in the wrong place at the wrong time, but it not depends on your behavior or your personality. (and I can tell you that it happened to me to realize this in my family, with my brothers, in fact my father lost his first wife and when he got married with my mother he already had a boy and a girl, who were young adults when I was born... and neither they nor my father where prone to accept my arrival...) You just have to look around yourself with courage and believing in yourself, and you'll find that you are not wrong.
• Malaysia
6 May 07
so it's depends on the situation?
@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
3 May 07
If everybody hates you, the reason is simply you do not meet their criteria or really you are a very boastful person. But some other reasons probably because you are beautiful, being popular or brainy.
• Malaysia
4 May 07
Perhaps your right! People tend to be insecure when somebody is UP to them ;).
@iszo07 (472)
• Malaysia
3 May 07
If EVERYBODY hates me, than there is absolutely something wrong with me! Maybe it was because of my personality or about something that I stand for. But usually, people who were hated by everybody just didn't realize it. They just could not see their fault , mistakes or weakness. They are self-centered kind of persons. Well, we are just human being. We can not make everybody happy with us. Even then, I will not expect EVERYBODY hates me. :)
• Malaysia
4 May 07
Of course, no one likes to be hated iszo07. Keep on posting!ΓΌ