Do you avoid having people around for dinner because you are not a good cook?

@Tetchie (2932)
Australia
May 4, 2007 6:22am CST
Some people take to cooking like a duck to water. I have not put much effort into being creative in the kitchen so I do avoid entertaining for this reason. How about you?
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• United States
7 May 07
I don't think that the food is the most important part of getting together, so I tend to stick with one thing that is easy to make and hard to mess up. Spaghetti. One of my friends is so undomestic that she was bowled over by the fact that I made cake frosting from scratch. It's a total of 4 ingredients.
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@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
8 May 07
Hey I can do that too! LOL. Not so good at the cake, but can do the frosting.
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@fazelath (1174)
• India
7 May 07
Yes your right,when u cook in a bad mood it shows in the taste of food,when u want to cook food with the bad intentions and with love it would be tasty,i think love is the main ingredient,i have experienced it
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@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
7 May 07
That is commendable that you know the difference, and through experience. I wonder how many people eat bland food and understand that it is because of the state of the cook? Get exactly the same recipe, same ingredients, same kitchen, same oven and see the taste difference. It comes down to the cook.
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• Saudi Arabia
8 May 07
Hi there ... I ain't a good cook either. But i don't avoid entertaining if i had 2, i mean i make the best i can or maybe i'll ask someone else's help. In worst case scenario, I would take my guests and invite them out for dinner or something (provided budget is okey) :D Thank you
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@bluewings (3857)
5 May 07
I am not a great chef,lol.I manage something when my friends turn up,but if it's a special occassion,I prefer ordering from the restaurants.Unless it's certain dishes that I feel confident cooking ,I don't take chances as I still want them to remain my friends,lol.
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
4 May 07
No i do not avoid having people for dinner because i am not a good cook. Usually there are always people at my house at weekends evenings, and they do usually order food, and make special food and bring that to my house, because they know that i can not afford to feet them every Friday. Lol. Sometime i do make special dinners, but we are always two or three friends that cook a my house, i never really do things along, because i do not have too much time and energy to start and cook. we have a short weekend here, and i like to rest a bit. But i also know that if there was a situation that my cooking would be bad, i would still invite people to dinner. Lol. Let them suffer a bit. Let see what kind of friends i have. Lol.
@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
5 May 07
LOL, yes a good friend will suffer through our shortcomings. HAHAHA. And say, yes it's a lovely meal dear, have you thought of going to the Asian cooking classes? LOL.
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@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
5 May 07
Actually, a good friend would say "You are a terrible cook, thankfully you are a good friend." And then suggest the Asian cooking class! LOL.
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@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
5 May 07
LOl. Well their cooking is not better then mine. so they won't dare saying those words..:)
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@fazelath (1174)
• India
7 May 07
We Indians mix the essence of love to the food,that is why some people are so good
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@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
7 May 07
I have heard that, and isn't that what is supposed to happen with food. If a person is in a bad mood when cooking, usually the meal doesn't taste so good.
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@brimia (6581)
• United States
4 May 07
I avoid it a bit because it's so much work, including the cleaning before and after...not because I'm not a good cook. It helps to get some take out or ready-made items from the store and mix it in with dishes from scratch to cut down on the work and stress.
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@jahvo6 (623)
• Peru
4 May 07
nO t really, I don´t entertain people ´cause I live in an apartment with my other relatives so it´s like un comfortable for them but I must say that I am a good cook and can make a pie, biscuits, quiche lorraine, etc.
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@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
5 May 07
Okay, you making me hungry!
@Anniedup (3651)
• Richards Bay, South Africa
4 May 07
OMG, If I should invite you for dinner, the only reason you will except, is, you don't know me and therefore, it will be the first and the last dinner invitation you will ever accept! lol! I am hopeless, and I'm not even ashamed to admit it. In actual fact I hate it, and it bores the living daylights out of me. Thank heavens it is a passion of my husband. I always leave a conversation, when he and my female friends start exchanging recipes, he will even take a recipe book and read it like a frigging novel! But all said and done, he is a wonderful cook!
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@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
5 May 07
HAHAHAHA. I can so relate to that. I have the attitude - "I have better things to do". I'm a convenience cook. Whatever is quick and easy. You married well. One of the pre-requisites for a partner - must be a good cook and good with his hands, as well as intelligent and can read my mind and get out of my way and not judge me because I'm having a mood swing! LOL.
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@aweins (4199)
• India
4 May 07
I love cooking and i never found cooking as a hard thing. i very much enjoy people around dinner and serve them my handmade food. the best thing is that my hubby was a regular out side eater. he never had any meal at home. after marriage when i took the kitchen and explored his tastes there, from that day his urge for moving out and eating was gone. this was the best thing that i felt and for him i can do anything. i dont eat non-veg., infact i dont even know how to handle an egg, how to break it. then too, i make omlette, french toast, hard boiled eggs, i learnt poached eggs after spoiling some first, egg curry. he loves eggs a lot.one day i made him sandwich of boiled egg with some veggies , and he became a fan of it. what ever i do with egg, the breaking job is done by him only. i never felt cooking as a hard thing and i enjoy inviting his friends with family to dinner, or sometime even at breakfast. i love to invite my relatives too.
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@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
5 May 07
Isn't it cool to watch someone break an egg in one hand. I'd end up squashing it and having eggshells all over.
@Nardz13 (5055)
• New Zealand
4 May 07
Hi Tetchie, I consider myself to work wonders in the kitchen and I love cooking for our family and friends. If I didnt know how to cook, I would still give it a go and make sure I study a cook book, so I wont look like a duck without water lol...
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@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
4 May 07
No doubt practice makes perfect, but I just don't seem to practice enough. It's great to watch people who can put together anything and know their herbs and spices and what to mix with what.
@ellie26 (4139)
• Malaysia
5 May 07
Your question fits me. I like having people together but I dont like to cook and I am not a good cook. I prefer to order food if I were to organise a dinner party.
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• United States
4 May 07
Yes, everyone I know is a wonderful cook so it just points out how bad I am. I am good with routine dishes but anything else I might as well put in the trash to start with.
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@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
5 May 07
And doesn't that make it so much harder, when everyone else is so good and you feel like you missed out on the cooking genes. Well you can't be good at everything and at least you won't starve with knowing some basic dishes. Well that's my outlook on it!!
@fazelath (1174)
• India
6 May 07
i love having people around for dinner as i love to cook,
@Tetchie (2932)
• Australia
7 May 07
I think some people are born to be good with food. A good dish is complimented by the person who cooks it, as if you put some of yourself into the food. I bet you are one of those people.
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@fazelath (1174)
• India
7 May 07
We Indians mix the essence of love to the food while cooking,that is why some people are so good,