Forgetting the past

if that works for you then let it. i may have a different way of managing my ghosts in the past like i face them and analyze how to deal or mange them since it's not going to go away , might as well learn to live and work with it to my advantage.making my weakness as a tool for me to be stronger and wiser.

my motto for life is you can not live in the past you can not predict the futhuere live for today and make it the happiest day you can believe in the Lord-- you worry to much about the past you will never get ahead in life consider the past a lesson learned and move forward you make your life what it is

No forgetting past is not a good option for me..!! As its wierd but I am habbit of remembering every memory whether its bad or good..! Its ok with me ...! Cause I hate to repeat my mistskes again..so to prevent this I have to remember my past..! And till now its not that painful either. Their many of my friends who ditched me when I most needed them so kind of use to it. If you start getting hurt so easily like a glass then you will break apart into pieces....! So you have to strong and hard with your life to survive. Have a Wonderful Weekend.

A lot of people are haunted by their past, thats very true. However, I've found that I feel a lot better about myself and things that have happened when I let go, forgive, and move on. In order to move on, I have to forgive, whether that be forgiving hurts that others have caused, or forgiving myself for hurting others. Forgiving brings me the closure I need in order to let it go and move on from it. I don't think I'll ever forget the past, but if I can forgive, all is good in my world.

Yea that's right. So many people are been hunted by the past. I know how difficult it is to forget about the past, but it is possible to forget about the past, it all depends on you. You should consider this; the more you look behind, the less you go ahead. Friend you have to let go all that have happened and start something new, I know it's not easy, but just give it a try OK? Thanks for this discussion and do have a nice day ahead.

well, you could have an amnesia.. its the best way to forget your past.. lol!

I would love to forget my past. My past contains alot of pain and is actually horrible. sometimes my past limits my life right now, so to be able to erase it all would be great. My past however has helped me form me into the person that I am today and I actually like myself now, so that I would not wanna change. All people have a past - good or bad and we all just have to learn how to live with it.

Hello, i think no one can forget about the past ,but the point is how we treat our experience in our past,some people will get stuck on it and always regret on the wrong decision they made, for me,i will keep them in mind and so that they can remind me what to do when similar situations arise. My motto is to review the past, focus on the present and plan for the future.

Offcourse it's not possible to forget the instantly, But yes as the time passes you an forget it. other way of forgetting it to involve yourself with other important work.

I don't think that you can forget your past instantly. How i wish everything would be forgotten in just a snap of your fingers. Actually, i really don't know if it is really impossible for you to forget something that has been a part of you. Sometimes, the harder part is when there are a lot of things around you reminds you of your past. Like you, i find it hard to forget things cause everytime i'm alone, memories keep on running in my mind freely and i could remember everything as if it just happened yesterday. But you know what, this sad memories should not keep you from being happy instead, take it as a lesson to make you stronger and think possibly that without being hurt, you will never appreciate true happiness. I just though of something, i think it's possible to forget your past but the bad thing is, you will even forget your present and even your name. Are you aware of Amnesia? Or the Alzheimer's disease?(i hope i got the right spelling).. hehe. Well it sounds silly but i assure you it can help you forget the past. lol

Its really difficult to get over my past. I usually dont forget my past

There is no way that I could let the past "melt away" because I feel that every experience that we have not only helps us grow spiritually but also shapes us into the person we are today. With every happiness, pain and mistake comes a change in you life! How do let go of something that has made an impact in your life?

forget about the past with the instantly is imposible bcause the past already had in our life and we cant forget about the past maybe we just can to create that become the memory

to me, it's a bit hard to instantly forget the past if whatever that happened was something big and it broke my heart badly. it's also hard to let go if it involves someone dear to me. some things are easy to let go, to be forgiven and forget about, but there are some things..the wounds never seem to heal..

it is the past which helps building our experince...so i gues its very important to remember instances from the past.sometimes, when we are tired or preoccupied, we tend to forget things instantly. in other situations, we remember things related to our life and the lives of the people for whom we care. so i guess we should remember our past!

I cant forget the past easily because past is part of my life and i just take it as a memories.I have many happy memories and bad memories and every time when i am about to sleep i do think of those past and think of the future also.

Hardly say to forget your past especially linked memories were so beautiful and memorable. But there's time for everything, I know that time will come that I could overcome the past and face the reality at present. Being with myself, family, true friends and God whom makes me intact in all aspects of my life. That's why I keep still and going.....

haha.. yes.. i think forgetting the past is a difficult task to do.. but i'm still trying hard to forget the past.. actually it's really impossible to forget about the past.. how can you actually forget the moment you step into this world.. right? .. i think i would be much better if i can totally forget about my past.. as i don't have a happy childhood... i think i will be a better person if i don't have my past to trouble me.. and maybe.. i can find the happiness that i always wanted... yes.. exactly.. many are haunted by their pasts and this keeps them from living fully and being happy.. agree =)

We cannot instantly forget the past. Especially those who leave a great impact on our life. I try to forget about the past and move on to the future. As hard as I try, I still have the memory of the past. So, the haunting will never fade and it just go for awhile. "Forget the past and live in the present"

I have tryed and tryed to forget the past but i just can't do it. I wouldn't necessarily say that if i let the past melt away it would make me feel better about myself and life. Most of my past events don't haunt me by bad feeling so i don't have to much to worry about.