Brunette or blonde?

@magica (3707)
Bulgaria
May 4, 2007 7:58pm CST
What are your preference for the color of your hair? Do u change it too often and too drastically? Is it sexier for you to be brunette or blonde? And how much this is really your opinion or it`s imposed from the men arround you? Have you anytime hear this advice from your partner to change the image just because he likes more brunettes/ if you are blonde/or visa verse/? And do you really listen so much ALL the advices of the men...hihihi:)?
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20 responses
• United States
5 May 07
currently i have black hair! my natural color is light brown, i have gradually went darker over the last 6 months til i got it black. i was a blonde 5 years ago but i greatly prefer darker hair on myself i think it accentuates my features more and because my skin is lighter i think it looks better, other people say the same :)
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
5 May 07
That`s a good criteria: is it really sutaible for your features or not. It`s very funny and grotesque pic to see a woman with very dark complexion and with blonde hair...as many gipsies here do.
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• Australia
5 May 07
Hello Magica Basically my hair color is black, but my face look so pale if my hair is black so i changes the color into brunette, and i must choose the blonde one because my hair calor is to dark so if i used blonde than become a brunette. I just changes around once in 6 months, my hair become dry after the coloring so next 6 months to get my healthy hair. Thank you and God bless you
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@Calais (10893)
• Australia
5 May 07
Im a natural blonde and I would not change the colour of my hair, not for a guy or anyone. I have never put dyes or anything in my hair. Besides it looks disgusting when you see different coloured roots I like my hair colour.
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@easy888 (10405)
• Australia
5 May 07
Hello,magica,I used to be a blonde few years ago, but it seemed that the gold color did not match with my skin color well,since then i had kept my natural black color till now,I think i will not dyed my hair anymore,i do not know whether i will be sexier if i am a blonde or not,and i do not care the opinion from the guys around. I only know it is not good for the health of the hair and dying the hair will damage the hair follicle permanently.
@KissThis (3003)
• United States
5 May 07
I am a natural darker shade of blonde. That has been my hair color for about five years now. I use to die my hair a lighter blonde when I was younger because my older sister said that I looked good with the color. Then I decided that I like being a strawberry blonde. My partner really doesn't care what my hair color is as long as I leave it long.
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• United States
6 May 07
blond vs brunette varies from person to person, some people look much better with blond hair and some people look better as a brunette.
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@Stiletto (4579)
5 May 07
My natural hair colour is dark brown but I change it all the time. Sometimes I just add some blonde highlights but now and then I go completely blonde. I'm brunette at the moment but next I think I'll go back to red hair again for a while. I'm quite lucky because I have fair skin and blue eyes so I suit being blonde, brunette and a redhead if I get the right shade of each colour. I can honestly say I've never coloured my hair because of any partner I've had. They all got used to me changing colour frequently anyway so it's never been an issue. As for what's sexier I think probably brunette - it's not necessarily true that blondes have more fun!
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
5 May 07
im brunette and happy as i am. Ive found that males who want a particular hair coulor are very immature blessed be
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@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
5 May 07
Well I dye my hair red so I guess towards a brunette. I'm a blonde by birth though. It's just it doesn't look that good on me. I prefer how I look with the red. I can wear more colors. I don't look washed out like I do with the blonde. I started dying it though because everyone accused me of dying it blonde. I figured if I was going to be accused of it then I might as well dye it a color I liked. Of course now I have grey and silver hair coming in and need to anyways :)
@Mickie30 (2626)
5 May 07
Well I have blonde and damson hair at the moment and like it this way. I like to change my hair often because I get bored if it isn't the colour then it is the style I will change. At the moment I am growing my hair then when it is long enough I will have it cut and I am going to give it to a child with alopecia so they can have a wig made. This may seem strange, but I just want to help someone else.
5 May 07
LOL I am always changing the colour of my hair, currently it is black with purple streaks. My partner doesn't really mind what colour my hair is, he loves me for who I am. To be honest I would never change my hair colour just to please someone else, only to please myself
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• United States
5 May 07
I have always been a brunette and that' s the way I'm gonna stay.Sometimes I will lighten it or darken but I do not want to be "just another blonde".
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@angeland (32)
• Canada
5 May 07
My hair is blonde. I do dye it becuase it is starting to get a bit darker, but even when my roots are 4 inches long and I dye it noone ever notices becuase the color I use is so close to my natural color! I have had my hair orange, purple, blue etc. and I don't care what anyone thinks! No man will make me change my hair - if they don't like it, then they shouldn't have asked me out! Also, if a man is that shallow, then there's no point - what if it all fell out? You deserve a man who loves you for you, not your hair (to all the women out there!)!
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• United States
5 May 07
Well I am a natural brunette but I go blonde when the season changes to spring. I think lighter hair is more attractive in the warm weather. I don't consider the opinion of men when it comes to my personal appearance I wear my clothes and hair the way I prefer it. Public opinion doesn't govern who I am or what I look like.
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• Canada
7 May 07
Well blond or brunette it does nto really matter it is in how you present your self, how a person acts, nad mostly ther personality can all contribute to this i met soem blonds who think they are blond they are gods gift to men, get over it. There should also be something said for baldness.
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
13 Dec 07
When I was little I preferred blonde hair as I didn't like my brunette color. It seemed so bland and boring to me! :P LOL But as I got older I didn't care anymore that my hair was a dark color and I had no desire to color it a different color. And since my husband loves brunette hair color anyway there is no need to dye it! :D LOL Though if I get any more gray hairs I may just have to dye it as I'm too young to have gray hair! Eeeek! LOL
@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
6 May 07
Up until a little over a year ago my hair color was salt and pepper with more salt than pepper, Ha! Ha! I had wanted to change the color of my hair to blonde for some time but my husband had begged me not to do it. He said he loved my hair the way it was. I didn't change it because I didn't want to hurt his feelings. Then one night out of the blue he asked me "Do you really want to change your hair to blonde?" I said that yes I really would like to try it and see if I liked it. He said "Well go ahead then, I won't be upset with you." So a couple of weeks later I had it done. Would you believe that night he came home from work extremely sick when I had to go to the beauty shop? It was only a mile from where we live so he told me to go on. After I got home and his fever had broken he looked at me and said "I like your hair." I was thrilled because I love being blonde!! Bless his heart, the next day he had to go into the hospital with pneumonia, but he still let me know he loved my hair blonde after all and he tells me now that he is glad I changed it!! I usually add the color to again about once a month to keep it this way.:)
@missak (3311)
• Spain
5 May 07
I preffer brunette girls, I find them sexier, I think blondes are usually less interesting, althought I never judge or reject none for her hair color or such things. So my advice for women is to leave their natural color, I think this is always pretier than a hair ruined because of chemicals.
• India
13 Dec 07
I love my long hair and couldn't bear to get it cut off now. I usually wear my hair in a pony tail when the weather is warm, so my hair is tidy and not hanging in my face. My partner also has very long hair and he generally puts his hair into a ponytail for work, it looks very tidy and clean. I also have a long hair.its about 30cm from my shoulder and i only cut once in a year, not much only to make a tidy long hair.i didn't want to cut my hair short,my husband also didn't allow it.i don't mind even if its summer or not.
• Romania
19 Jul 08
I am a Brunette, so I guess I prefer that look. I would never in a million years dye my hair blonde. I like men with dark hair as well. Just my preference.