wedding bliss

Here's my POV. You say that you are already of legal age and you want to have a church wedding eventually. Why then would you want this first one secret? Why not have a civil wedding instead so that you can still share the occasion with your loved ones? I'm just asking because you really did not elaborate on your situation. But if you feel that having a secret marriage is the best thing to do, then congratulations and I hope that you enjoy your (secret) married life.

Hey congrats thats good so when he gets back he have savings already so you can march in the church aisle, which is women's dream. Congrats and have a succeful marriage life...

Congratulations. You must be very happy. I wish you all the best and good luck!