Do you really know your spouse?

@andak2007 (3229)
Philippines
May 7, 2007 1:53am CST
If asked this question can you answer it straight in the eye? I have asked myself this one time and i could not answer back. Me and my husband have been living together for 3 years and i have to say there are lots of things that i didn't know about him...and everyday new things i discover about him. I stand in owe because i thought i knew him best but was wrong.
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@sodapop (977)
• United States
7 May 07
I believe I know my husband, but there are always little things that pop up that I didn't know. I think that is why people say they love their spouse more today than when they got married. You really learn alot about a person in good times, bad times, sickness...ect...children also add new things you will learn about your spouse.
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@sunsham68 (1378)
• India
7 May 07
Extremely well put. I totally agree with you!
@diillu (5128)
9 May 07
Thanks for such a wonderful question you post in mylot. And for your question my answer would be..yea I know my bf..much more..totally...and I'm even glad that he hasn't yet proven me wrong and we are staying together for past 3 years. For you just take your time and time is the most important thing in a relationship..take your time and you will know more about him.
@sunsham68 (1378)
• India
7 May 07
I have known my husband since we were kids, but since we have been dating, I have been very surprised about some discoveries about him, and then some more when we got married. But over a period of time, I think you can read their minds pretty well and second guess them a lot. Not always cos there are some situations which can be very subjective, but in most cases, it gets easier as you bond and communicate deeply.
• United States
7 May 07
I'd like to think I know my partner well, and I'd like to think I know them better than other people do. However, I really can't be sure that I know them best. There are probably things about them that I don't know yet and I think that's part of the fun of relationships, being able to learn new things about them that you didn't know before. It makes every day like some new type of surprise.
@zandi458 (27948)
• Malaysia
7 May 07
You can never understand your man cos men by nature are mysterious being. I have been married for 25 years and I see the four season in him.