Do you hurt people intentionally......

India
May 7, 2007 11:00am CST
I have seen quite a few folks who try to hurt you intentionally if they feel that you have hurted them.I really find it surprising as to why do people have such kind of attitude.I wonder if they really get satified by taking back revenge and believe me they can cross limits in order to satisfy themselves.Have you also came across such kind of people at any point of time in your life??
6 responses
@adijam265 (769)
• India
7 May 07
normally i dont do such things, i normally dont get angry very easily, if i get it will be for very good reasons, if someone does hurt me, i pray that he must be hurt the same way by someone else, i dont take it into my hands, but if someone hurts me, his picture will always be there in my mind, i am being very frank, given a chance., i would mostly not get back at him. but if he has hurt me badly, i dont know to what extent i can go, people an not like me for doing this, should i change myself!!!!!!
• India
7 May 07
I think thats the way you are and since others have accepted you like this,be yourself but as an advice,if you forgive the person who has hurt you,you'll not hurt yourself more thinking about the revenge
• India
8 May 07
thanks for the advice ravi , but for me forgiving is that person is not so easy, but now i am slowly changing
@ntejani17 (742)
• Pakistan
7 May 07
Yes I do. I love doing this. Hurting people is my hobby. Once I was hurt. That pain is yet in my heart and now I love to make feel the pain to other people.
@nannacroc (4049)
7 May 07
I try hard not to hurt people but I can be a bit blunt at times and speak before I think. I don't find any sort of satisfaction in hurting people, I'd much rather try to give them a boost.
@a_ce_e (1422)
• Philippines
7 May 07
Yes, I do. Because i want that person to realize what they have done, by putting them in the situation of the they hurt, so they must learn to respect and care.
@mkmsam531 (267)
• Philippines
7 May 07
Well, i have encountered people who like to revenge to people who have hurt them and did intentionally hurt others . I have been badly hurt before and i have thought of taking revenge. But then i realized that my anger and my desire to take revenge would not only cause damage to that person but also to myself. So i have decided to forgive him but it was not easy.
• Philippines
7 May 07
Some people hurt others intentionally because if that person hurts them they also want to make sure that that person is also hurting or miserable its their way of saying that their strong that they don't want to admit to themselves that someone could hurt them and make their life miserable.