Parents and lover, who is more important?

May 7, 2007 8:13pm CST
Hello, everyone, do you face the situation just like my title. I'm a Chinese girl and you know in China, we consider parents the most important persons, so when we love a person far from our home, maybe parents won't agree because they think their children may suffer a lot without them, many friends of mine are in such a dilemma, is there good way to solve this problem?
2 responses
• Malaysia
10 May 07
its good culture to respect our parents. And also we do have to respect their advise and their thought. And we have to be more creative so that they dont think that we ignore them. In this modern life, we hv lots of technology that connect people where ever they are. We have great communication technologies. So, anytime, anywhere....we still connected to people we love. So, i think its not a prob to have far relation. Tell and teach them the sweetness of todays technologies. Culture and technologies can move along.
@sabwinner (499)
• China
10 May 07
We do care about our family very much, clock. We care about their health, respect their opinion, share our life with family. But what I want to say is everyone has to live his own life. I believe our parents can understand this very well. But at the same time, we have to communicate and visit parents frenquently.