Will you let your GF Go?
By Abbypia
@Abbyey (760)
Philippines
May 7, 2007 10:49pm CST
If there was an outing from her office, and she is new. She has only been there for 4 months. She told you that the ratio was 6 girls and 12 boys. And she also told you that she overheard some of the guys would be bringing some weeds. Will you allow her to go? Or would you request her to make an excuse so that she wont have to go?
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@purplehaze (661)
• Philippines
8 May 07
Maybe you should first ask your gf if she wants to go or not despite knowing all these information. Im sure she's smart enough to decide if it's worth for her to go to the outing. Then, let her know about your side and your concerns about her safety. IF in case she still decides or says she wants to go, maybe you should trust her but you can remind her about some safety tips and measures so she's sure not to get any harm during the outing.If you're really worried, then maybe you can go to a place near their outing so if something happens, she can call you immediately and you can go to her rescue fast.
Still, give her officemates the benefit of the doubt..Maybe the guys were just joking around. See it on the positive side and that this will be good chance for your gf to know more about her officemates and build a good working relationship with them.
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@velvetprinzess (1064)
• Singapore
8 May 07
She is an individual after all and therefore has her own rights. Hence it is really up to her to decide whether she would like to attend this function. As a BF, you can give her opinion, but still she makes the ultimate decision.
Personally, I think it's ok to hang out with her colleagues. Since she's new at the office, it's always good for her to build good relationships with them as she may need their help at work. Also, it doesn't mean that just because the guys are bringing weed that she would automatically have to smoke those weed as well.
