Do you have any friends who you don't like?

stingy - I don't like stingy persons
China
May 8, 2007 8:24am CST
What does a friend mean?If a person you don't like at all,is he can be called a friend?Do you have a friend you don't like? As for me,I have a roommate who I don't like at all(to be honest).I don't like the way when she talks,the expression when she speaks,and her temperament and her smile.(She is very stingy.She often borrows some money from me and my other roommates,but does't return it sometimes.She often uses things of mine and other girls' in my room.She often goes out with differnt boys and none of them is her bf. haha of course this kind of thing has nothing to do with me .but sometimes...) However,because we are in the same room,we often go to class and have dinner together.Because of this,I believe she is my friend.Maybe I should say she is a friend I don't like .Do you have such a friend?If you don't like a person,can he be your friend?
2 responses
cheisentie
@cheisentie (142)
• Philippines
8 May 07
yah, i also have a friend that i don't like.. maybe because she's so perfectionist and think that she can do all the things without other's help, she is sometimes flirt with boys that some girls get irritated to her.. but i'll try to tell her what we think about her and after that we don't care to her anymore,, we give her a chance to be our friends but maybe she don't like to have a friends anymore..
thai11
@thai11 (239)
• United States
8 May 07
What??? She sounds like an acquaintance..not a friend. So what she is your roommate, you don't have to like her! When I was in college, I was in an apartment with 4 other girls at one time and I hated one of the girls. Like you, we shared a room so we had to see each other! I ignored her and acted like she didn't exist to me. I mean its like I would look right through her, I made her cry, do mean things to her!! Looking back now, I regret it. I hurt her really badly and I made her life hell for 8 months! I suggest telling her straight up where you stand on all the issues, like her borrowing and not returning (that pisses me off 2!)but if you really dislike her that much, see if she would be willing to transfer rooms or move somewhere else! I'm not mean spirited anymore so I don't suggest making her life hell..plus karma is a Mutha if ya know what I mean!!!