if your parents quarrel,what will you do?

China
May 9, 2007 12:20am CST
my parents have been quarrelling for many years,maybe from I can remember thing.they often quarrel for just little trifles.and cold war is very commen too.I have been trying to stop them from quarrelling,but it is out of use.to tell the truth,parents quarrel has a very bad effect on me.sometimes I think maybe it will be better if they divorce.I know this thought is wrong,but what can I do?
6 responses
@oracle18 (13)
• Philippines
9 May 07
you have to pray.. and be strong. there's no impossible for God, just stick onto Him. before, my parents used to quarrel a lot, even with simply things and i hated it. i used to lock my room, turned on my radio as load as it gets so that i wont be able to hear them yell with each other. but then i have realized that why would i turn my back on them if i could help them? try this man, tell them exactly how you feel, open up to them. communication is the best among families. ask them to pray with you, for Him to help you and to make your family stronger. godspeed!
@r4y_m4n (93)
• United States
9 May 07
if they argue when im nearby...i sometimes try to change the subject such we're all in the kitchen, when they start, i would juss budge in and ask "what's for food? im hungry" (i this often cuz there is not that much food at my house...:()
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@jianhong (739)
• Singapore
27 May 07
I will just let them quarrel. And i will do my own things. haha... Because i know if i was involve i will be the one who add more oil to it. I am use to it. Later they will be okay. Quarrel is a good thing i guess.Can know each other better.
• India
9 May 07
that is a real dramatic condition.....seriously i remember when i was a kid any when my pops came late to home my mom didnt open door for few min.......I use to think that ultimately my mom will allow him in so why to create that Drama......but now i can understand that ...it was not a drama but yet another way of showing Love and devotion for each other ......it was difficult for me to understand this when I was a kid but now I can understand that....
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@happymom1 (1179)
• United States
27 May 07
If my parents having trouble and hey quarrel i often talk to them and try to stop them if they will not stop i will shout to stop and it works they stop and look at me surprise. :) heheheh
• China
27 May 07
there is really a big bad effect with u...but the best thing u do talk to your parents when they are in good mood tell them what and how u feel about it every time they fight talk about your feelings and let them talk about their feelings too...expressing your feelings is very important in a good relationship don't be ashame express your feelings and let them express their feelings too...this we called "heart to heart talk" hope it will work because divorce is not the solution...good luck!!!