My friend aparts with her lover, how can I comfort her?
By clock0127
@clock0127 (13)
China
May 9, 2007 7:53pm CST
She is a timid girl, her lover is rather bright, she love him very much, but he want her do more for him, when his ask cannot meet, he said goodbye to her, now she is very sad, begged him back but failed. I always consider the man not love her and now still think so, but she doesn't think so, I don't know how to comfort her, do you have good ideas?
3 responses
@gpitts432 (4)
• United States
10 May 07
When i broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years, sitting around the house was the worse thing for me. I would mope around. What really helped me was my friends getting me out of the house and making me laugh. Sometimes its best to try to get her mind off it, even for just a little while.
@sabwinner (499)
• China
10 May 07
That guy doesn't match her,right? Do you think so? Most of times I believe we fall in love with the wrong guy! They are not suitable for each other. I don't think there is too much you could do for her, clock, she just need more time. Time will heal everything. By the way, you could be a good accompany, that'd be better.
@3superkids (446)
• Philippines
10 May 07
Your sister is so inlove and hurting i'm not sure she will listen to any advices. My suggestion is let her be sad. But show her that she is not alone and that you understand what she is going through right now. Also it will not help if you will tell her what you feel about her boyfriend. Losing someone is the most painful thing a girl could ever experience. And as long as there is pain the feeling won't go away. Bring her out to movies, the mall to any public places. Make her busy. Introduce her to new male friends. Most of all be a sister and a friend and show her how much you love her. Don't worry eventually the pain will pass and she will realize that there's more to life than her ex-boyfriend.
