Do you always tell your loved one everything you do? Even if you had an affair?

Secrets! - This picture shows a mysterious lady could be you! secrets she has, and does not know wheher to tell her better half or not. She hides her face in shame! or not?
@lilyruth (724)
United States
May 9, 2007 11:09pm CST
Do you feel guilty so guilty that yu have to tell your better half when you flirt with someone else or when his friend flirts with you or even if yu had an affair and you know it might break your relationship up.(Even the little things). Do You tell him or her everything? and do you think you should? Sometimes its best to keep quiet! Let me know your thoughts and comments on this SPEAK Whats on Your MInd!!
2 responses
• India
10 May 07
Is it guilty to have another affair?, then why do you involved in one before, So my advice is to change better halfs whenever you get chance and never tell one about your previous experience and never ask them about it also, because there would be many ones like you are in the world who change lovers , Enjoy life..........!
@lilyruth (724)
• United States
11 May 07
Im not talking about myself im merely talking in genral. But your advice is not good advice, sorry to disagree but its wrong to keep on changing lovers like yu vhange yur socks and if you are a person who does this by no means tell it to anyone they would kill you..LOL
• India
12 May 07
If you feel not guilty then why dont you change lovers like socks, The difference between human and animal is this, but i am sorry to say that now a days lot of people does not now this difference , any way i am alone in this crowd, i had one and only one lover in the whole life.
@magica (3710)
• Bulgaria
10 May 07
Agree, no need to hurt with wrong confessions.Sometimes they can release us from our guilt, but there is risk to be missunderstood and this will be a problem later.But for important things i never lie. To save some facts is not the same then to lie.
@lilyruth (724)
• United States
11 May 07
I agree its best to spare the facts why cause unnecessary hurt. It will only create more problems.