What You Will Do If Your In Case Of Groom?
By shak143
@shak143 (1280)
India
May 10, 2007 12:41am CST
Hi guys this discussion is about my frined.For me it's really disgusting.
Recently he get ready for marriage every thing is ok.Bride likes him and elders declare the marriage date.Every thing is happy but as day comes bride left the home with some other guy.She left at house when she was getting ready as bride.
No body know's why she has done like this.She may said earlier such that she can stay with her love only.But she breaks my frineds heart.
After marriage proposal he really in love with her.
So guys what you will do in case of groom?IS what bride done is correct?
5 responses
@judyt00 (3497)
• Canada
10 May 07
yes,its the right thing for her to do. would you want her to marry him and then leave afterwards? Yes, its embarassing, but I suspect that she only went along with the whole situation because her parents pushed her to. If she lovessomeoneelse, she would have never been happy with your friend, and would havemade his life terrible.
@shak143 (1280)
• India
10 May 07
HI Judy iam not saying she has to stay with my friend only but i want to say is she has to say it before the propaosal if not at the time of proposal maybe at the time of engagement.But she didn't.
And with her parents they asked her whether she is happy with this then also she didn't.She do this when tommoroe is her marriage.
Don't you think it's wrong?
Iam not saying that love is wrong but hidding it is wrong.That' it....Any how thanks for sharing your views....TC
@a_ce_e (1422)
• Philippines
12 May 07
WEll, i sympathize with you friend, but we don't know what is the reason behind why the girl leave him in that situation. Maybe, till the last day before marriage, she is still confused with herself for the marriage life she will be facing with your friend, maybe it is truly late for her to realize what and where she will be happy with.
Sometimes it really happen, especially if your friend is truly kind and has a lot of qualities a girl dreamed of, but still find her unhappy with this man, because someone already owned her heart.
If i were the groom, maybe it will be very painful of course. Financially & emotionally =) ,as all of these people were expecting i am getting married when suddenly my wife to be had gone. But maybe later on when time pass, i can understand the reason behind why beloved gf leave me on that situation. So for your friend, don't feel sorry..move on, maybe she is not the right girl for him, he will still find someone who will love him and will be willing to share life with.
@wondericequeen (7876)
• Hong Kong
10 May 07
I think it's good that she is honest with herself and your friend before the marriage, otherwise the hurt will be enormous. Your friend of course is sad now but he doesn't lose anything! Losing someone doesn't love him is nothing and he should move on with his life, live a better life and get married to a girl who is really in love with him, not something else. Good luck to your friend!
@Windrunner (477)
• Pakistan
12 May 07
well i wont be a groom but i really smpathise with your friend. what the bride did was not correct, your friend;s family should have questioned well before going ahead for the marriage. but i guess there is no use crying over spilled milk.
@mailovee (265)
• China
10 May 07
I dont see any honesty here,what I see is irresponsibility and frivolity. Your friend is luck actually for he didnt get married to her a irresponsible girl,so your friend should not feel sad or embarrassing it's the girl who should feel so. Tell him to find some one else,there are millions of better ones.
