Have you ever done this?

United States
May 10, 2007 12:58am CST
The last few days have been very stressfull my husband's uncle died on Saturday and some of his family where coming to town for the funeral. Some of his family where going to stay with us but I did not know how many because they do not confirm. So I've been cleaning the house and had to buy extra groceries. Do I cook for 3 or 6 do I make the hid-away bed or do I just make the twin bed? Today was the funeral and I had to help my husband tie his boots and botton his collar of his shirt. He has had a stroke and when he gets stressed he askes me the same question over and over and over. Today I had to make breakfast for his brother, and him, help my husband get dressed, and then one sister came over. I also had to do my normal stuff and get myself ready. We had to park 1 and 1/2 blocks away from the church and when my husband parked the car I could not open the car door. The curb was too high. I got so mad I snaped I yelled at him and accused him of always doing this to me! I had to craw out of the car through his car door. Our daughter and son in-law where parked beside us. I said the F word which I never use. I hardly ever raise my voice or even get mad at anything. I do not know where that came from. I guess I just had a melt down. My poor husband has lost two uncles in the last two weeks. He was the Pal-barer of this one. I should have been more patient but I guess I just snapped. Then our daughter did not go to the grave site her and her husband went to lunch and then went back home which was an hour away because she had to work. I was really disappointed because I wanted to spend sometime with her. You guys will be proud of me I did not snap, I did not use the F word I did not even cry. Has anyone of you snaped for something stupid?
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
10 May 07
Yes I have and actually tonight I snapped at my little Baby Gissi yes I did and I feel Guilty I feel so awful as I should not have snapped at him But yes even in the past I have snapped about something stupid it is easy enough done honest and you had a lot on your Mind there Sweetie I hope it all went well Hugs to you
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• United States
10 May 07
Thank, all is somewhat better. I just found out that my twin sister has MS. I started to cry for her. I do not want her to have MS. She is so active she cannot sit still for a minute. I hope she will be able to cope with his diagnosis. I love her so much. Thanks agin.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
11 May 07
Awwwww Sweet I am so sorry You do realize she is going to need you now I know I do not have MS but I do have an Illness that changed my life from active to this and it is hard to cope with even after 5 years so please be there for her you will go through tough times with her my Kids did with me Love and Hugs to you and my thoughts are with you please let me know how she gets on xxxx
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
11 May 07
Well I really hope you do not have it to and I understand that you are upset Life sentence or not it is very upsetting Sweetie and a big Change Love and Hugs
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@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
10 May 07
Oh yes well I believe that you were under a lot of stress and this is what caused you to snap it is quite easy to snap when we are tired and have so many things to do and not really enough time to do everything and due to you having a sick husband that had his stroke and therefore you have to do more so I can understand and I would probably in the same vote as you were.
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@Serina (70)
• United States
12 May 07
Oh,yes. I have snapped many times over the most stupid things regretfully. One night I snapped because this boy, who was a friend of my daughters,would not dance with me at my house. I had been drinking too. I started throwing a fit, kicked everyone out of the house, and tried to fight the poor boy. Next thing I know the law was there and I ended up in jail for the night. Hows that for snapping over something stupid???