The moral lesson is......

@cheenlly (3483)
Philippines
May 10, 2007 7:58am CST
Hi friends, i was thinking i might share this story to all of you and perhaps you can share your thoughts on what lesson you have learn with this. There was a girl that is very inlove to her boyfriend. Eventhough they are far away from each other, the girl wait for her boyfriend to be back. One day she received a news that her boyfriend will getting married. After hearing that, she cried overnight. After two weeks she received a card from the guy but she never open it because she dont want to read the guy explanation. The time comes she went to te church not to watch the wedding but to kill the guy. She shoot the guy! the guy died. After the burial, she open the card and it says, "babe, I LOVE YOU! WILL YOU MARRY ME" huhuhu! that really hurts. I think the moral lesson is dont make decision when your mad. Control your emotion and be careful in making decision and of course The word TRUST, plays most in this story. what about you? what did you feel after reading this? did it touch your heart? what is the lesson to be learn in this situation? Happy posting!
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14 responses
@lucgeta (924)
• France
10 May 07
you are right but let's not forget the word RESPECT too, was he doing some joke? testing if she would wait for the big surprise in the end. if they love each other he should know that emotions runs high and it is dificult to control
@cheenlly (3483)
• Philippines
12 May 07
yeah respect is a big factor too. I think the guy is just trying to suprise his gf through that card by proposing but since the girl didnt read it and judge his bf right then so the one who was suprise is the guy.
@mohit1123 (564)
• India
11 May 07
Firstly was this just a story highlighting all things you have mentioned or is it real. If this is a story then it teaches you a lot, like not making hasty decisions etc. If this is true then it is something to be sorry about and stupidity on the part of the girl.
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• China
11 May 07
both of them should take responsible for their mistake ,i didnt know what happend between them ,but if he have some resons unable to express,he should invite his lover and explainate it,and he pay his life to the mistake ,so pity that women ,is so stupide, maybe she thinks the boy hurt her heart ,and betray their promise ,now that she can't possess it ,destroy it ,so dangerous ! when she know the truth ,what 's the end of her life!
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@Karpov (68)
• Australia
11 May 07
I felt shocked and exceedingly amazed. I wonder if when her BF's spirit saw this what would he think. Anyway I think there must have something wrong when the girl heard the news. I suppose when she heard it it sounded to be a gossip. The mood when someone convey the message is not good enough that she had the bad understanding of the message. The boyfiend just want to give her a surprise....
@Guna1980 (872)
• India
10 May 07
I agree you points and its a mistake from that boy side only. He mad that girl so he earn the consiquences...
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• Philippines
12 May 07
yeah your right cause its not easy to wait and far to someone you love... it was real hurt...so the boy earn his surprisehe want from the girl..
@cheenlly (3483)
• Philippines
12 May 07
maybe the guy is a hopeless romantic who loves to read romantic novels and he copy the style to suprise her gf but he forgot that it is for real now and he never think of the consequences that may happen. thanks for dropping
@skbadhan (881)
• India
11 May 07
yes you are very right i an agree to you that we shouldn't takes decision when we are mad, angry. we should have patientce if situation like this arrives we must listen to ther and ask for explanation is the better way i feel
• Philippines
11 May 07
yeah right before we make some decisions we should think the right way and be calm ..dont do things that someday u regret in your whole life and its real hard to kill your someone you love ...u know i feel the pain after reading your story and i was real regret that was happen ... i learn to your story alot..
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@friendship (2085)
• Canada
11 May 07
I love this story. We must not jump into our own prejudice. If we're not sure, it is better to ask and to clear it out. If the guy didn't know whether or not she wanted to marry him, how could he prepare the wedding at the Church? Besides, she might find the Church was empty because she hadn't been proposed by her boyfriend in the first place. But anyway, this story is great.
@kirara (13)
• Singapore
11 May 07
Moral of story is Do not jump to conclusion! i guess that is what many of us tend to do, especially when in the heat of anger. it's real sad... if only she did stop and think and most important of all, open the card and see!
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@kathy77 (7487)
• Australia
10 May 07
Hi Cheenlly, Oh my goodness this woman really learnt her lesson well that is not good the way that she had to find out that he was going to marry her. Yes it is always wise not to make quick judgements and find out the facts first, Well the girl jumped to conclusions that she would have to put up with the rest of her life and so therefore you must not lead with your heart but with your mind as well.
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• Philippines
10 May 07
we must never be carried by our emotions too much. even if the guy was truly getting married to somebody else, it is never her right to take away anyone's life. in this story that you have related, the guy is at fault here, too. he must have come to the girl and proposed to her in person. a card cannot do that for him as it is. it is supposedly only an instrument to make known his intentions of marrying the woman for a first step towards the occurrence of such marriage.
@cassidy22 (2975)
• United States
10 May 07
I think there is a lesson here about communication. This man wanted to propose to her, but she hears through the grapevine that he is marrying someone else. Why weren't they talking? Why didn't he tell her? Good relationships are based on COMMUNICATION and this one apparently had none.
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@stella1989 (2274)
• India
16 Oct 08
What a stupidity she did!! Yes obviously one should never take any decisions while they are mad. And you should trust the one you love. Always try to analyze the situation rationally.. Like what is happening, why is it happening and what can I do to help it. And many other questions like this.. And please you don't deserve love if you are this selfish!! If you really love some one then you care for there happiness first than yours. And I think she was never in love with him .. It was just her obsession
• India
16 Oct 08
Yes I know that it does feel like shooting that guys head apart but ... Sacrifice is the another name for love.
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
16 Oct 08
I think the moral is more to Don't Jump To Conclusion rather than acting out emotionally. The other moral is Don't Assume! Makes an A-S-S of U and M-E! She found out he was married. She did not know who the bride is and she claims that she loves this fella a lot. When she heard that he is getting married, jumped to that conclusion as well. Then she acted out emotionally and killed him on the assumption that she is not the bride. So the story is not entirely on just acting out emotionally. She jumped to conclusion first. THEN she acted out emotionally based on that assumption. Shorte sighted person she is.