How Well Do You Trust Your Partner

Philippines
May 10, 2007 8:21am CST
How well do you trust your partner? Would you allow him/ her to be friends with his/her ex? Is it okay if he/she would go out with a guy/ lady friend. How far would your trust issues go? Just curious.
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@maruti800 (353)
• India
10 May 07
when you trust your partner in any manner you should allow them to their wish.. your trust will be their to hold the limit..
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• Philippines
11 May 07
I agree with you. The more that they feel that you trust them, the less likely that they will do something to break that trust.
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• India
12 May 07
how do you do?
@bambi_81 (28)
• United States
10 May 07
If a relationship is going to last you have to have complete trust in your partner. If there is something that he/she is doing that makes you wonder then you have to talk to them about it and see how both of you can work together to make it better. I would trust my bf to go out and do anything with an ex or female friends. Although there is always that little bit of jealousy just b/c another female is spending time with him I still trust that he loves me an only me and would never do anything to hurt me.
• Philippines
11 May 07
Correct. Communication is the key to resolve issues within the relationship. I also feel the same when i allow my boyfriend to go out with his female friends. But none the less it's the trust and love that keeps our relationship strong.
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• Philippines
10 May 07
Let put in this way, I said to my partner eventhough I'm not with him all the time, his conscience accompanied with him. We've talk a lot of things it's up to him to decide on things he has to surpass to really apprehend that our commitment is moreover his priority. He will not let things happen to destroy it. So before he does, he'll think well about it....By then I may be able to discern whether he truly love me. So far, at almost 7 years relationship I'am saying that I truly trust him,.....really filled our hearts with love....
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• Philippines
11 May 07
Cheers to you. I can truly say that the trust that you gave your partner went a long way. May you have many more years together.
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@CLUBSUGAS (257)
• United States
10 May 07
Well if you ask me - if people are worried or concerned about their other - they should not be in that relationship anymore - relationships should have 100 percent trust that their other is up to nothing - if they are suspecting then they owe to each other to realize it is time for a break up. It is the healthy way to be in a relationship if you ask me since there is obviously something wrong if there is call for alarm, eh?
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• Philippines
11 May 07
I agree with you. The relationship is worthless unless you trust your partner..
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• Philippines
10 May 07
i trust my boyfriend so much,, i let him enjoy his life like the time he was a single,, but of course when he go out with her friends and ex i worried that he may fall again into his ex but i try to think positive..
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• Philippines
11 May 07
I understand the sometimes we fear loosing the ones we love, especially the thought of loosing him to someone who was a part of his life before. However, I admire you for having a positive outlook on this matter. Allow her to be in his life. Nothing bad will happen because he loves you. This will also be a chance for you and his ex to be friends.
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@castleghost (1304)
• United States
10 May 07
If I had to worry about my girlfriend cheating on me with anyone including her ex then our relatioship would be over. I don't see how a relationship could survive with mistrust. I wouldn't want to live with the day to day doubts that if I wasn't around her twenty four- seven that she will do something. You can't live your life that way. There has to be trust in the relationship. I fully trust my girlfriend as she does me.
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• Philippines
11 May 07
It's a good thing that trust is mutual.Trust is a good foundation of a relationship. Nothing is more disappointing than thinking if your girlfriend would cheat on you or how you could monitor your girlfriend 24/7.
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• United States
10 May 07
I trust my husband completely. He actually is best friends with one of his ex's now, and so am I! lol He introduced us right after we met and I have always liked her. I have complete faith in the fact that my husband will always be faithful to me and I to him. If I didn't have this, I wouldn't be in this relationship. I can't live without trust. :)
• Philippines
11 May 07
Being friends with an your husband's ex is a good indication that you trust him a lot. That's good to hear.
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• United States
22 May 07
I have a few problems with trust, but it's not real bad. I don't think i would be so doozy about my boyfriend hanging out with his ex thoough....for what.....it's an EX RIGHT. Now a female friend its ok, i think it depends on the understnding of the relationship.
• United States
10 May 07
I trust my BF to the fullest. there is nothing that could change my mind in that. I would have no problems with him having female friends or to continue a friendship with an ex as long as he is still giving me the QT= quality time and TLC that I need. go for it!!!
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