Have you ever Fallen Out of Love???

Hi Friend, I just hope many of my friends never need to face such a heart break in Life. I have fallen out of Love. My Girl friend had just decided that she doesnt have any feelings from me even though she found nothing wrong with me. She said she likes someone else. I said Ok and said we would be just friends. She used to call me when she had none to speak with or when she had any problems. Certain times she never called me too. I think those were times she was quite happy and so couldnt have time for me. Then one day she tole me that I am too good for her, that I have always been nice to her. She knows I respect her and how pure my love towards her is. But she has tried to be a friend... tried to be good just for being thankful, to show gratitude for what I have been to her. But still she could never get any feelings for me. Atlast she tried to be good with me as part of good manners. Still she found no feelings for me. So just two days back, she called me and asked me never to call her. She was very frank and she said she was feeling as if I was being used by her. I said I dont feel the same. but she said she doesnt want to feel guilty and pleaded with me not to cal her again. Because how much ever she could never develop any feelings for me. I was glad she was so frank with me. But felt defeated.... I used to believe in "With Love you can conquer anything". But with experience, I found that it isnt always true. may be with time she would like me as a friend.

Yes i've been in that situation before with my ex-husband. We been married for three years and as the time were been together all of a sudden one day I just feel and realize that I've out of love with him. I just can't convince my self to give back my love to him, I know the reasons why that he's been so irresponsible and lazy that I can't rely to him as a husband and a father to my twins,and yet I'm the one who's striving for our family. I know I hurt him so much about that but maybe I can't blame my self about falling out of love for him, I do all my best to have a good family.

I have never fallen out of love, but its one of my greatest fears. I cant even imagine it happening with my boyfriend, but I know thats its possible, and it can happen when you least expect it. I dont know what I would do if I just woke up one morning and realized that I wasn't in love with him anymore. I think that I would just panic. It would be more hurtful if he fell out of love with me obviously. Its a scary thought.