Hears Bad About Your Partner What You Will Do?

@shak143 (1280)
India
May 11, 2007 1:52pm CST
Hi every one loves there partner.Some loves more than any thing.It's difficult to hear bad about our loved ones and even to iamgine.Some take it as serious and some take it as light.what you will do?will you take it as serious?will you explanation?or will you don't mind and stays calm?
3 responses
• Philippines
12 May 07
when somebody say bad to my partner i will confront him/her and ask a lot of questions about the things that he/she tell about my partner,, after that i still calm and ask my partner about that,, i don`t need to show that i`m affecting because he may say that i don`t have trust in him,, i show that i`m worried about the bad news about him..
@taurean83 (505)
• United States
12 May 07
This is true and As i am i would never be happy to hear anything bad or wrong about my partner.If something happen like this and someone tells me bad about him I would get aggressive and offensive and will take care of that person my way but i won't let it go easily i will ask my partner too.Cause may be there is a reason behind what other person said.
@netski_15 (423)
• Philippines
11 May 07
It's normal that no one can please everybody and yes sometimes I hear bad things about my husband. What I usually do is stay calm and disregard it. There's no sense listening to it. What is important is that I know my husband very well and we understand each other. Having these rumors or bad things around might just ruin the relationship.